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Pick whatever synonym you prefer and read it in place of.
I personally dislike "fuck"; sounds purely physical and unemotional, aggressive, quasi mechanical, like scratching an itch.
While "porking" sounds silly, goofy, almost nonsensical. Something two people attracted and trusting of each other would blurt out as teasing.
The first carries the same weight you vocalized on your reply for me, only that I don't apply that disgust solely towards men. I can tolerate a "fuck" as an expletive towards anything in a figurative way (fuck the traffic, the car, the coffee being too hot, the iced tea too sweet, the dog peeing on the sofa, the cat throwing up on a shoe) but I sincerely dislike saying or hearing said "fuck" in the literal sense. It's crude, rude, disrespectful towards the other.
Do women who you 'pork' like you refering to fucking thrm with that term?
I only use euphemistics if there is an established relation and consent to it.
At some point in my life I was with someone that had a kink for being called by terms I consider demeaning towards any human being, so I openly refused to do so and explained why I did it. The relationship ended shortly after.
Because I see sex in a couple dynamic as a corner stone for a healthy relationship, I always strived to be open about talking regarding limits, dos and donts. I like enjoying myself before, while and after being with my partner and making sure my partner does as well and laughing and goofing around is an integral part of it.
So, if there is mutual trust to throw around some silly dirty talk, yes, to answer your question, I would.
I just want you to know that your comment wasn't blatantly disrespected at least by this internet stranger.
It's a thoughtful reply to some asshat that was asking you questions in bad faith, he was not open to a different point of view from the outset.
And also that's pretty awesome stance to take. I wish more folks were this mature about their relationships
If somehow letting out all of that vitriole helped that person in feeling relieved and with their views asserted, good for them.
I sleep at ease with my conscience, as I didn't insulted them, regardless of what they felt or thought.
Thank you for your kind words.