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[–] Rustmilian@lemmy.world 1 points 7 months ago* (last edited 7 months ago) (9 children)

May I remind you, I'm not the one who brought up men's issues in the first place. If Apytele left out :

Men are welcome to do the same whenever they're ready, but for now a lot of men are just coping by crab bucketing this shit and bringing women back down.

We wouldn't be having this conversation at all.
I have no issue with the rest of the comment. That particular part is clearly not in support of men, it's not positive at all, putting the blame square on men's shoulders and oversimplifying the problem. If she wanted to promote Women's rights, that fine. If she intended to encourage men to join and fight for themselves this is not the way. That particular part is clearly made to create division, not unity.

I understand what you are saying and why. I'm not saying you are wrong. I'm explaining why you aren't getting support from others.

I don't care if I have support from others or not. I'm already used to never having my voice heard or being rejected, it makes no difference.

[–] gimpchrist@lemmy.world 4 points 7 months ago (4 children)

Dawg you need to go talk to somebody cuz you're obviously traumatized from when you were 6 and you need some actual professional help from somebody who knows what the fuck they're doing and I don't mean that in a mean way.

[–] Rustmilian@lemmy.world 1 points 7 months ago* (last edited 7 months ago) (2 children)

Well yes. Unfortunately, the mens mental health industry is woefully underdeveloped and often not taken seriously. I'd go therapy if there was an option for me to do so, unfortunately there isn't any in my region, non trained to deal with my personal circumstance at least. For a time I was going to therapy by my own regard but then the therapist who I was seeing passed suddenly in a car accident and there's no one capable of replacing them.

[–] gimpchrist@lemmy.world 1 points 7 months ago (1 children)

There are online therapists now

[–] Rustmilian@lemmy.world 1 points 7 months ago* (last edited 7 months ago)

I see, do you have any suggested resources?

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