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[–] junderwood@lemmy.world 128 points 6 months ago (27 children)

One thing I'll say about the old model was that out of all the dating apps, Bumble was the only one where every woman who I met or even just messaged with could hold a conversation. That one requirement of them reaching out first set the bar, and I knew they were making the choice to speak to me out of all the other guys they were drowning in. I ended up with more dates through Bumble than any other app, and even made great friends with some people I didn't romantically click with. Online dating is awful, or was for me, but Bumble was the least awful one of the bunch. The new model sounds not so great.

[–] eee@lemm.ee 27 points 6 months ago (4 children)

really? I haven't used Bumble myself but I've heard stories of guys with inboxes full of women just saying "hi"

[–] MentalEdge@sopuli.xyz 22 points 6 months ago

Bots. Bots everywhere.

[–] Omodi@lemmy.world 22 points 6 months ago

In my experience all the women do start with hi however 100% of them engaged with the conversation after that. It felt much better then getting a bunch of matches but most of them ignoring you(understandably).

The story I heard was 9/10ths of the women on the platform had "I don't message first, you message me first" in their bio, so it was functionally a display case for morons.

[–] CybranM@feddit.nu 1 points 6 months ago

Basically my experience

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