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I have mixed feelings on the pronoun use, but having read some of her autobiographical writing I don't think she would have taken much issue with it. This piece is more focused on her work in computer engineering, so I felt it was appropriate to post here.

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[–] Jackthelad@lemmy.world 33 points 5 months ago (24 children)

I have mixed feelings on the pronoun use, but having read some of her autobiographical writing I don't think she would have taken much issue with it.

It's fine how they've used it because it's referring to the time before transition, so it's just being accurate and also means the story makes more sense.

[–] Stovetop@lemmy.world 63 points 5 months ago* (last edited 5 months ago) (19 children)

A lot of trans people would disagree. Just because someone was forced to conform to their biological sex for years doesn't mean they felt that way on the inside.

Every trans person I know, without exception, prefers to refer to their pre-transition selves by their current pronouns and would take issue with the suggestion that they were still a boy/girl before becoming a girl/boy.

[–] Rhaedas@fedia.io 9 points 5 months ago (5 children)

That makes sense, but then the term "transition" seems incorrect. More of a "resolution".

[–] Tywele@lemmy.dbzer0.com 10 points 5 months ago (1 children)

Transition can refer to different aspects like your appearance or how you present socially. So transition is still the right term.

[–] Resol@lemmy.world 6 points 5 months ago (1 children)

That's why the prefix "trans-" exists, not just for transgender people, but for other things like transportation, transposition, transition, transformation, Transjordan (sorry, I just HAD to make that joke), it simply means "the other side".

[–] Rhaedas@fedia.io 3 points 5 months ago (1 children)

That emphasized my point. If someone feels that they had always been a certain way in the past even though they didn't look it or act it in public, there is no "other side" of themselves. I'm not trying to change the vocabulary, just was an observation of using a word past its usual meaning. That's how words evolve.

[–] Tywele@lemmy.dbzer0.com 5 points 5 months ago (1 children)

There can still be another side, like I said, just in another aspect. Their gender identity might have been the same througout but their presentation would've probably changed with time. Thus a transition.

[–] Resol@lemmy.world 2 points 5 months ago
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