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[–] qwertyqwertyqwerty@lemmy.world 6 points 1 year ago (1 children)

It doesn't matter how many people or what kind of people moved from Reddit. I was there 14 years (Digg 4.0 exile here). They have a new group of people now. My wife and kids now use Reddit, but it's not the same type of user interaction I experienced there in the past. It's very much a mix of scrolling through TikTok videos and sparse reading of comments on an /r/askreddit thread. It's casual browsing and video content. There are still some holdouts, which I think mostly contribute to what's left of the comment section, but that's it. It sucks, because I miss the discussions there. Lemmy kind of scratches that itch, but the content is slow to come in, and the comments so few. I'm doing my part, and I am much more active here than I ever was on Reddit.

[–] rwhitisissle@lemmy.ml -1 points 1 year ago (3 children)

IMO the quality of discussion here is about the same on reddit. Which is to say, not very good, or very deep. It's shallow observations, memes, and one liner gut reactions to headlines. People have been conditioned over the past decade to not engage with long replies or complex thoughts. It might have to do with social media becoming more or less defined by people engaging with it on mobile devices, which don't really enable that sort of engagement. But it might also be people genuinely not giving a shit anymore and only wanting that minor degree of superficial interaction.

[–] Jaderick@lemmy.world 3 points 1 year ago (3 children)

I get better responses here on Lemmy with my longer replies, which is great. Reddit feels overall dumber now where people will try and argue that your comment with sources is somehow less compelling than someone else’s sourceless opinion (true story).

I’m having far better interactions on Lemmy.

[–] jballs@sh.itjust.works 3 points 1 year ago

My favorite thing about Lemmy is that you can comment on an article that's several hours old and get responses. Reddit was so big that if you didn't comment on major articles within a couple minutes of being posted, your comment would get buried under a thousand other comments and would never be seen. Commenting became a game of which top level comment you could possibly sneak your comment as a response to, even if it wasn't really a "response" to what the person had said, just to get your comment seen and have a chance at sparking a discussion.

[–] CoolBeance@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago

I've had the same experiences actually. It's also a lot more common (at least from what I've experienced) to find people being more composed here even in the face of some divisive or provocative content.

[–] Tyfud@lemmy.one 1 points 1 year ago

Same. I've had mostly positive interactions with Lemmy. The content is slow to come in, but more enjoyable to read and interact with

[–] killeronthecorner@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Honestly, the worst thing about Lemmy is Lemmy users thinking it's better than Reddit simply by the virtue of it not being Reddit.

The platform? Yes, absolutely, a much better solution with built in checks and balances to stop one greedy company eating everyone's lunch.

The content? It's identical! (Bar a few cosplay communists that stir up drama occasionally). And some things are significantly worse like the quality of content curation and moderation.

For every person writing an "ugh you must be a Redditor"/"I thought I left this behind on Reddit" type comment,I bet there are many more people rolling their eyes and at least a few of them that end up abandoning the platform entirely.

[–] balderdash9@lemmy.zip 1 points 1 year ago

Also let's not forget that Reddit has duration as an advantage. I can look back 10 years on a tv show that is no longer airing and there will still be discussion threads from when it came out. That's literally impossible to manufacture overnight, so Reddit has a huge edge.

[–] fishos@lemmy.world -1 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

I think it has a lot to do with longer messages seeming "elitist" in addition to the tendency of trolls to find one phrase they don't like and derail the entire topic over it. You write 3 paragraphs, most don't read past the first sentence and vote based on that, and some troll starts nitpicking your use of "us" vs "we" instead of the actual topic. Over time you see putting the effort into a comment as pointless or outright adversarial, and you stop. It's the trolls and the low effort people that make having quality conversations frustrating. Not trying to gatekeep, but I firmly believe that once a site becomes popular enough that all the "Lowest Common Denominators" join, quality drops. The signal to noise ratio just becomes too much. Popularity is a death sentence on the Internet.

[–] doingthestuff@lemmy.world 3 points 9 months ago

I was on Reddit for ten years, about a million karma between a few accounts. The day Reddit Is Fun stopped working I had already deleted my accounts and all of that content earlier in the week. Google searches have brought me back for a few minutes but I'm out.

[–] secret300@lemmy.sdf.org 3 points 5 months ago (2 children)

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[–] EherVielleicht@feddit.de 3 points 5 months ago

Yeah, our server sucks.... Sry broh

[–] EherVielleicht@discuss.tchncs.de 2 points 5 months ago (1 children)

It was something like this as far as I remember.

[–] secret300@lemmy.sdf.org 2 points 5 months ago
[–] Mamertine@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

My search results keep wanting me to go to Reddit. I'm trying to avoid it, but it keeps calling.

I'm not scrolling there like I did before the "Spez killed the 3rd party app migration". I miss the level of engagement and ease of finding communities. Lemmy is decent, but the post volume is lacking. If I scroll new now, and again 12 hours later, there's not much new stuff before I see the stuff from last time.

[–] RatzChatsubo@lemm.ee 1 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

Lemmy will dethrone reddit once you are able to google a question and the Lemmy link is at the top as opposed to reddit

[–] quantenzitrone@feddit.de 1 points 1 year ago

im only lurking without an account from time to time

[–] Harpsist@lemmy.world 0 points 1 year ago (1 children)

The guy that invented steel had to live and breath iron in order to create change.

Its not wrong to still use the old ways.

Hell. I hear some people still use the imperial system. Lol.

[–] Schlemmy@lemmy.ml 1 points 5 months ago

You're a poet, my friend.

[–] veniasilente@lemm.ee 0 points 1 year ago (1 children)

As per usual, it's a matter of content.

I can't (and shouldn't have to) carry the entire weight of a fandom on my shoulders. Until there's more activity here on those subjects, I have to at least keep an eye on Reddit.

What I always do when I can however, is I try to do POSEO to raise awareness: by which I mean, I post my opinions or ideas or stories in my own site (or in my Masto main) first, and only crosslink on Reddit. I was thinking of doing the same with reply comments as well, but dunno how much would that promote interaction.

[–] Polar@lemmy.ca 0 points 1 year ago (1 children)

It's also the toxic community.

I was called a racist and holocaust denier because I asked someone how they expect YouTube servers to be paid for if you refuse to pay for premium, and don't want to watch ads.

My comments were downvoted like crazy, and the person who called me a racist holocaust denier was upvoted..

Again, all because I asked a question about how servers should be paid for. What the actual fuck? Reddit is insanely toxic, but Lemmy takes the cake.

[–] ursakhiin@beehaw.org 0 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

:note: I know this isn't the point of your comment but I wanted you to be able to have a non-insulting conversation on the topic.

Premium is more than it should be and ads on YouTube arent handled very well i.e. Obnoxious

I watch adless on my phone, but still use the default app to stream to my TV and generally let the ads play through.

23 dollars a month for 2 people on a family plan is just nuts, though. If they had a 2 person option that was like 17-18 then I'd probably get it.

[–] Polar@lemmy.ca 0 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I agree that the pricing doesn't make sense unless you can split it, which is what I do.

Premium is $25 in Canada. You can add 5 people to your plan. That makes it $5 per month for each of us.

Personally I don't buy cable or satellite TV, so I get most of my enjoyment from YouTube. So to me $5 per month is nothing, especially if you have something like Spotify which you can cancel and use YouTube Music, which is included in that $5.

If you have no friends and you're the only one footing the bill, I agree that the pricing is a lot. At that point you just have to deal with the annoying ads.

I hate ads as much as anyone, but my question still remains for anyone who demands on blocking all ads and refusing to pay for premium, how do you expect servers and creators to be paid?

I know Google can technically afford it, but that's not how businesses are run. You can't take profits from one department to make up for the losses in another department, and as we know bandwidth is extremely expensive, and Google hosts an unbelievable amount of data, and free, too.

Like I've mentioned in the past, I have a bunch of videos uploaded to YouTube to share with family, and they are all private. Therefore Google is paying to store my videos, while making $0 from them, as they are not public and making any ad revenue.

I also know that Google is bad. Corporations suck. All that jazz. I just don't understand why most of Lemmy users think everything should be free, but when asked about how these things are supposed to get funded, they go silent.

Lemmy itself won't be around long if users refuse to donate to their instance, and refuse to view ads. Even if someone is hosting an instance in their basement, the cost of internet, replacement drives, maintenance, and electricity all add up.

[–] Arcka@midwest.social 0 points 1 year ago (1 children)

as we know bandwidth is extremely expensive

No. You very obviously don't know how bandwidth is handled for large providers. They don't pay per gb, and instead have peering agreements with other networks. Google generally doesn't have to pay these other networks, as Google has the web applications that the other networks' customers expect to be able to use.

[–] eltimablo@kbin.social -1 points 1 year ago

Peering agreements are in no way free no matter what company you work for, what the hell are you on about?

[–] etuomaala@sopuli.xyz 0 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)
I still feel a strong pull towards r/worldnews.
c/world@lemmy.world is juuuust not quite as good,
    content-wise.
edit:
    [!world@lemmy.world](/c/world@lemmy.world)
    Still new to lemmy, lol...
[–] 0x2d@lemmy.ml 0 points 1 year ago (1 children)

ah yes c/world@lemmy.world

also why are you typing in codeblocks

[–] etuomaala@sopuli.xyz 0 points 1 year ago (1 children)
Because
    it
        preserves
            whitespace.
[–] whoisearth@lemmy.ca 0 points 1 year ago (1 children)

It's also pretentious. Just saying lol

[–] etuomaala@sopuli.xyz 0 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Do you know of another way to preserve white space?

[–] whoisearth@lemmy.ca 0 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Unless you're typing code why is it important?

[–] etuomaala@sopuli.xyz 0 points 1 year ago (1 children)
It's an experiment I've been trying for about two weeks, now.
I am using whitespace to make written English easier to read.
I put one sentence per line.
Long sentences are broken into multiple lines
    according to natural breaks in the sentences.
(I try to aim for an 80 column width.)
Indentation is used to signal the continuation of a sentence.
Basically, I am treating English like a programmer would treat code.
As an interesting and unexpected corollary,
    the English is much easier to edit, and
    diffs are way cleaner.
(I'm editing this in an external dedicated text editor.)
[–] eltimablo@kbin.social -1 points 1 year ago

In what way do you consider it easier to read raw HTML than it is to read properly-formatted text? This text displays all of its tags on kbin and it's a nightmare to read.

[–] balderdash9@lemmy.zip -1 points 1 year ago

Yeah, reddit admins won. Most people don't care and at this point its hard to see what the admins could do to start a real exodus. Hell, my reddit usage is way down, but I still go there for niche subjects (anime, philosophy) because nowhere else is comparable.