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[–] baronvonj@lemmy.world 3 points 1 year ago (1 children)

So .. if he could receive a call ... couldn't he make a call to someone he knows?

[–] MystikIncarnate@lemmy.ca 3 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I remember reading about this. He was actually lost, in that he strayed from his trail and didn't immediately know how to return.

Rescuers were alerted because a family member had reported him missing after he didn't arrive home on time.

As the story goes, to the best of my recollection, the "lost" individual went for a hike and said they would be back before sundown. When they got lost, they obviously missed that deadline. They were biding their time in the forest until daybreak to try to find the trail to get back because it was too dark to look for it. So while he was "lost" it was mainly because the sun had gone down. He didn't feel like he was in any danger, and wasn't at any risk of immediately being harmed or killed; AFAIK they were reasonably familiar with that forest and they were more than capable of surviving in those conditions; so he had no motivation to seek help.

TL;DR: guy didn't feel like he needed help.

[–] _CottonCandyUnicorn_@lemmy.world 2 points 1 year ago (2 children)

I get that he didn't feel like he needed help. But he told his family he'd be back before sundown so wouldn't the thought to call or even text your family to let them know you're ok cross your mind? That's the part that seems strange to me.

[–] cactusupyourbutt@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago

whats strange to me is that the family didnt try to reach him first

[–] lud@lemm.ee 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Maybe they forgot ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

[–] Gormadt@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 points 1 year ago

Been there for sure

Just forgetting to tell family I was going to be later than I expected

[–] Ajen@sh.itjust.works 2 points 1 year ago

I remember this article... He went for a hike and didn't tell his roommates when he would be back. He didn't answer their calls (I'm assuming he needed some time alone), and was gone for more than 24 hours so they reported him missing. He just wanted some time away from his roommates and they put him the the national news.

[–] c0mbatbag3l@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago

It has nothing to do with social fear, every fucking call on my personal and work phone is a scam.

Get that shit under control and then maybe I'll answer my cell phone once in awhile lol

Though if I was really lost I think I'd be answering every call tbh.

[–] Surreal@programming.dev 1 points 1 year ago

I wish people texted after failing to call me. I don't answer calls from unknown numbers either but if you know me then text me so I know it's not a spam number

[–] UnicodeHamSic@hexbear.net 1 points 1 year ago

Because of capitlaism everything has to be ground into the finest point with the sharpest edge to make money. So the ability to talk to anyone on earth whenever you want has been reduced from a marvel scifi authors used to dream about to its current state were is an annoyance used to make your life worse whenever possible. It would be trivially easy to make like just a little bit better but that isn't good for the gdp so people in risk of death can only assume the system is out to harm them

[–] Designate6361@lemmy.ml 1 points 1 year ago

As someone who does not answer unknown numbers I am laughing and also cringing

if you want me to actually respond to you, leave a message. doesn't everybody know this at this point?

Death to America

[–] ox0r@jlai.lu 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

If it's important, they'll leave a message. Otherwise it's just another scam anyway

[–] quarrk@hexbear.net 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

“Hey, sorry to bother you, was just wondering if you were dead. Please call back at your earliest convenience.”

[–] ox0r@jlai.lu 1 points 1 year ago

Yeah right, as if I'm dumb enough to fall for that one!

[–] Evilphd666@hexbear.net 0 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Has signal.

Doesn't open map app.

[–] ArtisinalBS@lemm.ee 0 points 1 year ago (1 children)

In what imaginary world you're living that you have data in the middle of nowhere?

[–] quarrk@hexbear.net 1 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

You should have GPS without any service at all. You might need data for the map to load, depends on the app. If you’re lucky and the app automatically cached it when you had signal, or you manually downloaded the offline map, then you could navigate home in airplane mode.

All of this is moot because I think I remember reading the rest of this story. The hiker wasn’t really lost, they simply went on a hike without telling anyone, and ignored calls during that time because they were trying to unplug.

[–] LogicalDrivel@sopuli.xyz 0 points 1 year ago (1 children)

If I pick up, then they know its a real number and I get added to a hundred more lists. Its taken me years of diligently ignoring the world to get to the point where i only get a couple of spam calls a day. I might not answer, either.

[–] jackoneill@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago

I have 2 numbers, my direct cell that only family and close friends know, and my business line that I give out like candy. Business line is simply a virtual line that goes to an auto attendant that I this is si and so from whatever company, dial 1 to ring my cell or dial 2 to leave a voicemail. If you don’t hit a number it hangs up after 30 seconds. No more spam. Of course, some REALLY dumb clients think I’m sending them straight to voicemail because they don’t listen, but that’s it’s own kind of filter that I also appreciate