Selfhosted

I have a rpi4 awith an external hdd at my parents house, which I connect via a wireguard vpn, mount and decrypt the external hdd and then it triggers a restic backup to a restic-rest server as append only.

The whole thing is done via a python script

I chose the rest-server because it allows "append only", so the data can't be deleted easily from my side of the vpn.

A huge tape archive in a mountain. It's pretty standard for geophysical data. I have some (encrypted) personal stuff on a few tapes there.

Rclone to dropbox. ( was cheapest for 2tb at the time )

Right now I sneaker net it. I stash a luks encrypted drive in my locker at work and bring it home once a week or so to update the backup.

At some point I'm going to set up a RPI at a friend's house, but that's down the road a bit.

For storing the backups, I use a storage VPS. I got one from HostHatch a few years ago during Black Friday sales, with 10TB space for $10/month. Hetzner have good deals with their storage boxes, too - they offer 5TB space for $13/month if you're in the USA (you need to add VAT if you're in Europe).

A good rule of thumb is to never pay more than $5/TB/month, and during Black Friday it's closer to $2/TB/month. The LowEndTalk forum has the best Black Friday deals.

I use Borgbackup for backups, and Borgmatic to handle scheduling them. Borgbackup is a fantastic piece of software.

Borgmatic has an "append only" mode which lets you configure particular SSH keys to only be able to add data to the backup, not delete it. Even if someone/something (ransomware, malicious users, etc) gains access to your system and tries to delete the backups, they can't. Essentially, this is protection against ransomware.

This is a very common issue with other backup solutions - the client has full access to the backup, so malware on the client system could potentially delete all the backups.

I have two backup copies of most things. One copy on my home server and one copy on my storage VPS. If you do do multiple backups, Borgbackup recommend doing two separate backups rather than doing one then rsyncing it to another server.

I use Proxmox PBS for all my backups. Datastore is on my file server at home. I sync the datastore daily to a little NAS at a family members house and to a super cheap storage VPS on the other side of the country. I also do a manual sync to an external drive that keep offline at home.

Any super important documents such as tax records, health related files, backup of the data volume from vaultwarden, or anything related to wills & estates get backed up as well to 2 USB thumb drives that are LUKS encrypted. I keep 1 in my go bag and another is hidden somewhere.... Thumb drives get updated once a month, or sooner if anything major changes.

I spend my days working on a MacBook, and have several old external USB drives duplicating my important files, live, off my server (Unraid) via Resilio to my MacBook (yes I know syncthing exists, but Resilio is easier). My off-site backups are to a Hetzner Storage Box using Duplicacy which is amazing and supports encrypted snapshots (a cheap GUI alternative to Borgbackup).

So for me, Resilio and Duplicacy.

My automated workflow is to package up backup sources into tars (uncompressed), and encrypt with gpg, then ship the tar.gpg off to backblaze b2 and S3 with rclone. I don't trust cloud providers so I use two just in case. I've not really been in the need for full system backups going off site, rather just the things I'd be severely hurting for if my home exploded.

But to your main questions, I like gpg because you have good options for encrypting things safely within bash/ash/sh scripting, and the encryption itself is considered strong.

And, I really like rclone because it covers the main cloud providers and wrangles everything down to an rsync-like experience which also pretty tidy for shell scripting.

you can rent a vps and set up encrypted backups

I use LUKS and backup to a usb-drive that I have at home. I rsync those backups to my work once a week. Not everyone can backup to their office, but as others have said, backing up to a friend/family member's house is doable. The nice thing about rsync is that you can limit the bandwidth, so that even though it takes longer, it doesn't saturate their internet connection.

Most of my work is with Macs, and even one server is running macOS, so for those who don't know how it works 'over there', one runs Time Machine which is a versioning system keeping hourlies for a day, dailies for a week, then just weeklies after that. It accommodates using multiple disks, so I have a networked drive that services all the mac computers, and each computer also has a USB drive it connects to. Each drive usually services a couple of computers.

Backups happen automatically without interruption or drama.

I just rotate the USB drives out of the building into a storage unit once a month or so and bring the offsite drives back in to circulation. The timemachine system nags you for missing backup drives if it's been too long, which is great.

It’s not perfect but very reliable and I wish everyone had access to a similar system, it's very easy, apple got this one thing right.