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[–] OmegaLemmy@discuss.online 24 points 1 week ago (1 children)

I never really connected past a surface level relationship, the blame is on me, I had both men and women who took interest in me but I never followed it up with interest in them, neither did I attempt to interact with them

I probably should've, taken a day and went to a small restaurant to talk and chill, would've been very possible and easy too. Istanbul has great metro tram and bus routes.

Honestly, if you're in a similar situation as I am, just give it a shot

İnvite a friend over to eat at a fast food place, if you're talking to a person of your interest then take a small risk and try to put events together with them

Put color into your life, try to live less safe be more risky, even if you fuck something up so bad as to cause a break in a relationship it would only be something you would regret for a year rather than a lifetime

[–] OmegaLemmy@discuss.online 14 points 1 week ago

Wall of text so that I give myself a life lesson

On another note, maybe this is why it's good to have a journal and write about stuff.

TL:DR take risks, break off from single tone life, make closer bonds with small strides even with risk involved