Let's preface by making clear that when I say Lemmings are disconnected from reality, I don't mean they're delusional. I mean they're so immersed in their unix-like free-as-in-freedom open-source technobubble that they've forgotten what regular people want.

As for the rest of your comment, yes, every social media will attract its own niche of people but not every platform is equally as disconnected from the real world. For example, nobody in Fragrantica (perfume social media) would recommend a regular person to buy a perfume that smells like cocaine and magazines, even though its one of the most popular fragrances among people who like perfumes. Meanwhile, on Lemmy, people love to pretend the SteamDeck is an actual alternative to the Switch.

Obligatory xkcd.

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[–] Elevator7009sAlt@ani.social 2 points 2 hours ago* (last edited 2 hours ago)

Thanks for clarifying. I do my best to compensate for any of my differences from what the average person wants, but it's a bit hard if you and your environment also skews in that direction.

At least with tech I feel I've got a somewhat decent handle on "normal," at least for my age group, which is not "grandparent struggling to turn on the computer". I probably skew a little more crazy compared to average, I did switch my computer's OS to Linux, but way less than people on this instance. Although I have no comment on the Switch/Steam Deck thing, I have zero desire to participate in console gaming and none of my friends are passionate enough about consoles to leak any information over to me. I've seen Switches around and have no idea what a Deck looks like, which might be telling, but it is also possible some of my friends have Decks and I just dismissed it as "some object".