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Right on the head, I've had a woman try to tell me to be rougher and take what I want.
Sure, right after you sign a fucking waiver - I'm not about to 'take what I want' and have you turn around and claim I forced you into something.
Do all women secretly want to be raped?
Seriously. It might be a genetic primate thing. Built in.
#NotAllWomen but the ones who do like it rough often have fantasies that involve losing power and agency over what their partner does. Hence roleplaying rape and "do what you want to me". However, sometimes they do have a script in their head and don't like it when the partner deviates from that script because they just want to play at losing control, not actually lose it.
Then, if they haven't agreed on a safe word beforehand, which they haven't because we're talking about people who don't communicate properly, it turns into a confrontation.