My advice is the opposite - you guys need to step up (well - down) and start eating more ass. Don't let the fear mongers take the fun out of sex and foreplay. Everything people do in that realm could possibly cause illness or might be dangerous - from STDs to causing ruptures in the skin - but that shouldn't prevent people from having a good time. If people are clean and healthy and showering regularly, there's no reason to fear anal stuff at all.

[–] cryostars@lemmyf.uk 14 points 11 months ago (1 children)

Exactly. JFC how nasty are the asses these people encounter? Wash your asses!

[–] tygerprints@kbin.social 5 points 11 months ago (1 children)

I mean, when I was a young man (to be honest as young as 12) I had sexual "fun" with girls in my class (after school, not during!). And I had hetero sex pretty early. I didn't come out as gay until my mid-20s. But I've noticed that with women, often they seemed a little less clean "down there" than men. I think it's just because females have parts down there that get mucky...(don't mean to gross anyone out).

I know people assume men must be gross down there, but most guys I've been with are not at all. In fact, not even in the slightest. Maybe I lucked out with really clean guys - but I prefer their body cleanliness environment (?) to that of women. I hope that doesn't seem sexist, but it probably is.

[–] Bipta@kbin.social 9 points 11 months ago

There's no way to know if it's all men or only gay men this is true for, besides it being only anecdotal.