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Anon goes home (sh.itjust.works)

submitted 1 month ago by Early_To_Risa@sh.itjust.works to c/greentext@sh.itjust.works

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[–] merc@sh.itjust.works 3 points 1 month ago

Also, some things haven't changed, but should have.

Yeah, the kitchen smells the same, mom's laugh is the same, dad's still using the same chipped mug.

But, dad's prejudices haven't changed, they've only calcified a bit more. Mom's learned helplessness has only gotten worse. The old disagreements never got resolved, they just got shelved, ready to be taken down again when the time comes.

Plus, the parents think that you, their kid, hasn't changed. They still see you as helpless and in need of their guidance, even when they're having increasing difficulty navigating the world because things are changing too quickly for them to handle. Hence the old meme of "take your resume, walk right into that office, and demand a job!"

I get the appeal of nostalgia, and it's sometimes fun to pretend that things haven't changed, but it's better to realize that time keeps marching forward and try to adapt to the new situation.