You mean I shouldn't just blindly accept your interpretation when it doesn't make sense? I'm sorry that I don't just accept what I read on the internet as gospel. Especially when evidence leads me to believe otherwise. The categories outlined are not necessarily markers of "bad" relationships. You assumed that it does. I do not share that same assumption.

and assign more motives to me that make me seem irrational and illogical. I don’t think you’ve done those enough yet.

I've not attributed anything to you at all. You're doing that all on your own with this response.

This conversation is very unproductive

You made it that way. Congrats!

But to actually further my point. You can be 100% happy in a relationship and still have a valid reason to divorce. How does that jive with your interpretation? That's right. It doesn't. Which is part of my point, but you wouldn't know that would you, you know... since you don't want to actually participate but just hear people regurgitate your assumptions.