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[–] Cowbee@lemmy.ml 2 points 9 months ago (1 children)

Show me. Show me where there is an overlap of people who think bodyshaming is okay and misgendering is not. Humans aren't a monolith.

[–] agitatedpotato@lemmy.world 1 points 9 months ago* (last edited 9 months ago) (2 children)

https://lemm.ee/comment/8694192

Gee look at that, when it's someone detestable, no one even cares. I was looking for one I saw about a week ago where someone called them out for bodyshaming and got downvoted for it. Ill keep going, im sure theres more. On this site Bodyshaming gets you upvoted though. Gee if only someone tried to bring this up, im sure they'd be met with open dialogue and not baseless accusations and being talked over. Stay posted, I'll get more.

https://lemmy.world/comment/6998701

Glad this comment finally got out if the negatives but they're drowned out in number and number of votes by people insisting that insulting his disability is okay. Lemmy has a real problem with this, and assuming all of them also support misgegendering is short sighted, untrue, and unhelpful. Im sure user 'progressiveist' is a big time misgenderer though because that makes sense.

[–] Zoot@reddthat.com 3 points 9 months ago

You do realize that's an entirely different post yeah? You also realize lemm.ee isn't lemmy right? I am not trying to attack you, nor did I look at where the person your arguing came from, but for them it could very well be non-existant. The community you join, determines what you see. This is the luxury of a federation.

[–] Cowbee@lemmy.ml 1 points 9 months ago

Is this person also saying that misgendering is bad? Do you think Lemmy is a monolith?