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You're welcome!

I use https://nginxproxymanager.com/ for my reverse proxy. It doesn't exactly integrate with ESS, but it's not super challenging to set up proxy hosts for the domains (you can specify multiple domain names in one Proxy Host if they all point to the same host/port).

I find it nice because I can manage it via a web portal, but it's on my home LAN. Depending on how you access your VPS this might be less convenient than using one of the other options, but I don't have much experience with the others.

I set up Let's Encrypt certs to automatically renew for the Matrix domains, pointed them all at the ESS host server and port, and then enabled Websockets Support. That last bit is critical, or things will simply not work correctly, especially calls. image