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Anon has an asexual gf (sh.itjust.works)
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[–] SharkEatingBreakfast@sopuli.xyz 2 points 7 months ago (1 children)

Because I don't want to have to continually explain my orientation to people? Like, holy shit, why the hell is this particular label a whole goddamn spectrum that I have to pull out a chart to explain??

"I'm gay", "I'm bi," "I'm lesbian", "I'm pan" — that's concise with no need to explain further! I'd LOVE to say "I'm asexual" without having them be like "Oh but you can still be kinky and have sex, right?" Literally all meaning is lost.

In a world where sex & relationships are deeply intertwined, I just want to be understood and have a space with people I can relate to without all that being something I'm forced to constantly wade through.

I don't even want to be asexual, alright? It's difficult enough as it is. I just want a goddamn word. Ffs..

[–] hikaru755@feddit.de 1 points 7 months ago* (last edited 7 months ago)

why the hell is this particular label a whole goddamn spectrum that I have to pull out a chart to explain??

I'm sorry that humans and human sexuality are complicated, I guess? Asexuality is just a little bit different in that there's significant spread in sex-favorability, which just is not the case as much with the other orientations. Again, if you really want the label all for yourself, please tell what label sex-favorable aces should use instead in your opinion, I'm genuinely curious.

But also, I still don't see how just a quick addition of "and sex-repulsed" is that much harder. It is literally three words. If the other person doesn't respect that, that likely wouldn't have been any different with a shorter label.