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[–] Anise@lemmy.blahaj.zone 42 points 6 months ago* (last edited 6 months ago) (1 children)

My advice is to find a more diverse group. Married and LTR folks are typically less likely to engage in this behavior, especially if their partners are there too. Its tough when you're in your 20s because 20something guys are all trying to throw their 3 pointer despite the odds.

Either that or find an overtly lewd mixed-gender/mixed-sexuality group and embrace it. I played a very racy campaign in Uni that was a lot of fun. Everyone was onboard with what was going on though before it started and we knew it was going to get weird in a fun way. It was a fun way to also explore my own gender/sexuality in a safe no-contact fantasy way.

[–] nifty@lemmy.world 39 points 6 months ago* (last edited 6 months ago) (2 children)

Some married women tend to assume you (unmarried somewhat attractive woman) want their man.

[–] FatTony@lemm.ee 16 points 6 months ago (1 children)

Man, there is just no winning is there?

[–] Anise@lemmy.blahaj.zone 21 points 6 months ago (2 children)

It's people, there is never any winning. You do your best to find chill people and don't waste your precious limited leisure time with people who make you feel bad.

[–] FatTony@lemm.ee 5 points 6 months ago

It’s people, there is never any winning.

This is my new life motto.

[–] tetris11@lemmy.ml 4 points 6 months ago

You do your best to find chill people

This is my new life motto.

[–] joe_cool@lemmy.ml 8 points 6 months ago

Yeah usually the ones being unfaithful themselves are the most controlling and paranoid.