I don't think there's anything wrong with having preferences. As long as you don't fetishize or objectify, and you treat people with dignity and respect it's all chill.

[–] meekah@lemmy.world 5 points 4 months ago* (last edited 4 months ago)

Yeah I definitely treat everyone with respect and try to avoid fetishizing. I'd be lying if I said that I'm not trying to find someone with certain features, but I guess that's really just having a preference. I'm not opposed to the idea of dating someone who doesn't have all those features. My preferences are mostly about personality anyways though.