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Anon doesn't know what he's doing wrong (sh.itjust.works)

submitted 1 month ago by Early_To_Risa@sh.itjust.works to c/greentext@sh.itjust.works

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[–] Mandy@sh.itjust.works 27 points 1 month ago (13 children)

Idk if this is solace for someone or not but as a lesbian I never had it any easier than this hypothetical chap

[–] NikkiDimes@lemmy.world 13 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (12 children)

I gave up and found a boyfriend. I'm not even kidding. I'm like...90% lesbian though.

[–] GottaKnowYourCHKN@lemmy.world 1 points 1 month ago (1 children)

You're bi. Just own it.

[–] NikkiDimes@lemmy.world 2 points 1 month ago (1 children)

But I don't wanna

[–] GottaKnowYourCHKN@lemmy.world 1 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Lesbians aren't toys to play with when you're bored.

I'm a lesbian. I've had times where I'm hella single and don't go to dudes because I'm bored or lonely. If I did, I would consider myself pan/bi.

You're bi, just say you're bi. You can't be a certain percentage of something like that.

[–] NikkiDimes@lemmy.world 1 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (1 children)

Nah, I think I'll identify how I please.

Lesbians aren’t toys to play with when you’re bored.

I'm fully aware of this, having been the one toyed with before.

[–] GottaKnowYourCHKN@lemmy.world 1 points 1 month ago (1 children)

What bothers me, is that this creates this idea for some men that they can "change" or convince lesbians. If you're like "Oh I'm a lesbian, but I have a boyfriend." You're going to make some men think they just have to ask enough and that lesbians just "need a good d" to turn straight again.

Why lesbian over bi, if I may ask? Do you find yourself moving between the two labels when it's convenient or would be awkward to say? Like, if you meet his family-- do you tell them you're actually a lesbian?

[–] NikkiDimes@lemmy.world 1 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

No, I totally get that, and I hate that I "prove" that idea in any form, because it's horseshit. I hear that shit all the time and frankly, it's disgusting.

I identify more with lesbian, because quite frankly I'm not physically attracted to guys like...at all. I just happen to really be attached to this one guy in particular. Outside of him, I've never had a guy as a romantic partner, and should we break up at some point, I don't see myself doing it again.

Regarding his family, I probably wouldn't say anything at all about my sexuality haha

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