Which one is your other instance?
Blaze
Actually there are some comments from other people: https://reddthat.com/post/20632337?scrollToComments=true
Most of them are from LW, so they won't federate before a few days.
The issue is that if one instance has too many updates to send to another one (in this case LW to mander) it starts to create delays.
This mostly happens due to LW size, as you can see Reddthat has no issue
Huge sync issues between Lemmy world and mander: https://grafana.lem.rocks/d/cdfzs0dwal3pca/federation-health-time-behind?orgId=1&var-instance=All&var-remote_instance=mander.xyz&var-remote_software=All&from=now-1h&to=now
I posted about it on !mander@mander.xyz a few days ago.
Another reason to not have all communities on LW
Indeed, I was going to comment "cross-post, the feature that doesn't work for all the instances in 0.19.4?"
Feel free to organize the migration
Are insults really necessary?
Seems pretty easy for any corporation to setup something like https://lemmy-federate.com/ but for Maston/IceShrimp/Misskey accounts to federate the important corporate accounts to the targeted non-corpo instances
First, practically speaking, do you run that site or have some ability to modify it?
I don't, which is why I linked to th e Github issues and suggested that someone opened an issue. Nobody did so far, but the 0.19.4 issue impacted another https://github.com/maltfield/awesome-lemmy-instances/issues/46
Not that I think of, especially as they were not federated with most of the instances
Mander has important delays with LW
https://grafana.lem.rocks/d/cdfzs0dwal3pca/federation-health-time-behind?orgId=1&var-instance=All&var-remote_instance=mander.xyz&var-remote_software=All&from=now-1h&to=now