At this point it's "unmoderated comments section" moment. Pretty much all public spaces are infested with this stuff now.
DiogenesOfMiami
joined 1 month ago
The joke is that people (including the main character/OP) feel comfortable criticizing others when those others don't know about the criticism, but as soon as they do, the anti-confrontational/cowardly/etc. part of them immediately regrets being critical.
I switched to Debian KDE Plasma recently and I can barely tell there's a difference except it doesn't let Firefox be snap (yay) and Steam takes 5 minutes to install instead of 0 (meh).
The tip is: Buy the bigger ship.