When people talk about joining the Fediverse one of the main reasons mentioned for not staying is that people will jump on them over a tiny mistake. That's what I saw your comment to be.
Telling people "don't ever fucking mention another issue when a women is talking" is stupid. The more comments we get on lemmy the better. The more discussion the better. The medium allows discussion to fork without derailing anything. So if people want to respond to that comment and discuss then nothing is taken away from any of the other comments in this thread and people who don't care can just minimize that comment and all the rest in that comment thread.
Crocodile dundee moment