Up to you. I'm comfortable with:
- buying smaller or indie games
- subscribing to lesser known / low profile / niche content creators
- pirating anything old, hard to buy, or incredibly popular (like people who make 100k+ per month on Patreon)
- avoiding AAA games altogether, with rare exceptions (those I usually buy, or they are F2P)
I'm also comfortable with pirating some content first and later buying/subscribing if I see I keep enjoying the content.
Yeah, if violent games (and I mean real ones, where you literally play as evil maniac) don't make people do violence irl why would lolicon games (even hardcore stuff like teacher rape fantasy) make them do pedo crime.