LadyAutumn

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[–] LadyAutumn@lemmy.blahaj.zone 5 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) (2 children)

He's honestly probably just hoping to get insider info on a rug pull meme coin. Doesn't make sense from any other angle.

[–] LadyAutumn@lemmy.blahaj.zone 12 points 2 months ago

TikTok absolutely does the same kind of thing and worse. Engagement is all that matters. Doesn't matter what kind, what about, or how that engagement is generated.

[–] LadyAutumn@lemmy.blahaj.zone 4 points 2 months ago

My family is from nearby. Unironically hundreds of icebergs a year pass that area. It was honestly a matter of time.

[–] LadyAutumn@lemmy.blahaj.zone 12 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) (2 children)

Wonder how long those 2.99 a month figures will last. I give it a year before there's no seperate remote streaming package and the only remaining one is >10$. The main appeal of Plex was not paying. It's used by pirates. The goal is content for free. It's no longer free. I don't care at all if random people can use my Plex server. If they are unwilling to adapt to a new platform, then I guess they'll resubscribe to Netflix. Most of them never unsubscribed from Netflix to begin with.

This was the end for me. Used Plex for almost a decade. I'm off to Jellyfin. It's actually almost no change whatsoever to integrate it into my home setup.

[–] LadyAutumn@lemmy.blahaj.zone 4 points 2 months ago

It's definitely possible they're amplifying these developments to maintain confidence in the Chinese market, but I doubt they're outright lying about the discoveries. I think it's also likely that some of what they've been talking about has been in development for a while and that China is choosing now to make big reveals about them.

[–] LadyAutumn@lemmy.blahaj.zone 5 points 2 months ago

I definitely cannot agree. I encourage anyone who has any issues with moderation to make a post in the Blahaj meta community. Ada and Kaity have been spectacular and have responded to every issue I have come across. There are limits, they can't preemptively prevent any kind of moderation issue but they respond quickly.

[–] LadyAutumn@lemmy.blahaj.zone 53 points 2 months ago (32 children)

Youre absolutely welcome to join Blahaj zone. Our wonderful administration team (both of whom are women) bans misogyny whenever it comes around to our communities. The mods for our main communities share a very aggressive moderation policy.

[–] LadyAutumn@lemmy.blahaj.zone 4 points 3 months ago (1 children)

I like that you repeated that 3 times for emphasis. Yeah they're a bunch of sociopathic sex pests.

[–] LadyAutumn@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago)

I agree. Housing is a human right, and any person being homeless is a failure of the political systems they exist within. Homelessness is a crime against humanity. No human being should be denied their own shelter. The US government would allow more people to become homeless if all presently homeless people were housed. It would undeniably be a good thing of Elon Musk did house all the homeless, but without systemic change, we will find ourselves back at Square 1 in 5 or 10 years.

It is necessary to view and treat shelter as a human right that all people are guaranteed and provided by the system. Much the same as food, potable water, healthcare, and heat.

[–] LadyAutumn@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 3 months ago (1 children)

I said this in another comment, but it is not possible to know who is and isn't faking it. You can't diagnose someone over the internet. You just can't. A proper assessment is done in a clinical setting over a period of time. If we normalize questioning the diagnosis of others inevitably a sizable amount of people accused of faking it will genuinely be neurodivergent. Same goes with being queer. It benefits no one to allow others to decide if someone is gay or trans or not. All that it does is normalize the idea that it's acceptable or permissible for other people to decide who you are for you.

I resolutely oppose any efforts to label others as faking a disorder. Genuinely. I do not believe in the "watering down the meaning" theory and believe that ableism/queerphobia comes explicitly from hatred and disgust, not from any experiences with real or fake neurodivergent/queer people. Far, far more harm is done by gatekeeping our community.

You remember that guy who pretended to be a trans woman a while ago? Like had socials and did this whole thing for months? If he came out as trans again today I have no reason not to accept him. So what if he is faking? If he exhibits predatory behavior then he should be excluded by those behaviors. I have no reason to question his identity though. It doesn't benefit me or my community in any way to treat gender as anything other than what someone self identifies.

Much the same with neurodivergency. Unironically millions of neurodivergent people, predominantly women, have never gotten any help whatsoever for their neurodivergency because they have been systematically gatekept from getting a diagnosis by others who do not believe them. It benefits no one to normalize gatekeeping.

[–] LadyAutumn@lemmy.blahaj.zone -2 points 3 months ago

You didn't get into addressing any of the other things I said. I'm not into repeating myself over and over. I'd encourage you to read the rest of what I said, I addressed the things you've said here as well.

[–] LadyAutumn@lemmy.blahaj.zone -2 points 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago) (2 children)

No, it isn't often made up for attention. And the kind of attention directed towards neurodivergent people on social media is overwhelmingly negative. The exception tends to be from other neurodivergent people.

I am neurodivergent. My partner is neurodivergent. The majority of my friends are also neurodivergent. I am aware of what misinformation about neurodivergent people looks like, and it is categorically not coming from neurodivergent people on TikTok. It is coming from communities dedicated to questioning the diagnosis of others. It is coming from neurotypicals who feel the need to gatekeep neurodivergent people and shame them for being neurodivergent.

Not having an official diagnosis doesn't mean that you aren't neurodivergent. Ive been diagnosed since I was 4, but I had far fewer barriers to getting that diagnosis than many people do. Particularly, women and girls face gigantic barriers all the time to getting diagnosed.

No expert or journalist can assess whether someone has a disorder over a video. That's just a statement of fact. Only through performing actual tests and routinely speaking directly with and observing a patient in a controlled setting can you determine if someone meets the criteria for a diagnosis.

This phenomenon of accusing neurodivergent women and nonbinary people of faking it for attention exists in every social media, not just TikTok. TikTok is just the most prominent due largely to its accessibility. Making a TikTok is far less involved than making a YouTube video. It is in many respects easy for average people to create content for.

Ive seen the "problematic posts". It's always a conventionally attractive woman or a nonbinary person showing themselves stimming or having a meltdown or talking about any of the ways that being neurodivergent impacts them. The comments questioning them are always all about "xyz isn't neurodivergent that's just normal" "they probably make up a new diagnosis to go with every gender" "I'm neurodivergent and I am inferior in every way and want to die, there's no way anyone could ever be proud of being neurodivergent, this happy woman offends me by trying to say that she is neurodivergent too". It's not scientific, it's not journalism, it's not medical. It is shaming people for being themselves. That's all.

It's not your business to gatekeep someone else's neurodivergent status. It's not your business to determine whether someone else's symptoms are valid or not. It's just ableism. That's all it is.

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