I get what you mean. When updating Linux mint, the "This needs to get some additional packages too" window, relatively benign, has a big scary ⚠️/ /!\
on it.
Felt the need to explain to the person I was installing it for. "That's totally normal, just look it over first and continue."
...like, it's gonna do that almost every time it updates, it doesn't need to look scary. :|
Ah, Elementary through Highschool teaches you to be an employee.
Higher education is being sold dreams and taking on debt to learn to be a better employee. Sounds about right.
I teach myself new complex skills all the time, but I imagine I'm still written off a ton because I didn't pay for at least the four year license to learn to learn. Lol
(I want to emphasize I'm being playfully sarcastic about our clown world society and not attacking you, you are very correct about needing to understand before one critiques!)