NotLemming

That's interesting, I'd never heard of that before. I know that people who are aphantasic often still dream with vivid mental images, so, it like they aren't able to access them consciously and maybe the triggers help you in a similar way.

Instagram isn't for sex is it?

Aphantasia?

I think there's more than one kind of imagination. It's like the opposite of 'thinking outside the box'.

Theirs is more like 'wow this box is big! I'm gonna get inside a smaller one'.

I'm tall and a woman. It makes me happy and feel kinda powerful that I could cause this situation and maybe even have since I've dated shorter guys and am oblivious to social stuff.

Most people have an astounding lack of imagination. Its like they thing that things can't get much worse because that would be too different to now....