Silentiea

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[–] Silentiea@lemm.ee 18 points 8 months ago (3 children)

And yet here you are.

[–] Silentiea@lemm.ee 2 points 8 months ago (1 children)

They're just going to write all the articles in lojban.

[–] Silentiea@lemm.ee 1 points 8 months ago

It's called "capitalism". You should avoid it if you can.

[–] Silentiea@lemm.ee 1 points 8 months ago

I think it's at least hyperbole. The consequences aren't the same, aren't even equivalent, but there are still negative consequences.

[–] Silentiea@lemm.ee 1 points 8 months ago

I guess I just automatically jumped to the part that affected me personally the most....

[–] Silentiea@lemm.ee 2 points 8 months ago

That makes sense, but a lot of the same points apply. No one thought J.D. was a girl or told him he was delusional for believing he wasn't. I do get that it was obviously meant to be demeaning there, but almost certainly not for a "you aren't who you think you are" way, but rather "girls are silly and you're silly so you're a girl" way. Casual misogyny: not really better than casual transphobia, but still a separate thing.

The distress JD feels when belittled thusly isn't because someone really believes he is wrong and bad for thinking he's a man, but because Cox doesn't respect him as a doctor and has the erroneous belief that calling him a woman's name conveys that somehow.

[–] Silentiea@lemm.ee 4 points 8 months ago (1 children)

...never doubted their gender...

I'm assuming

[–] Silentiea@lemm.ee 9 points 8 months ago (5 children)

Why target the consumer and not the source?

If for no other reason than it doesn't have to be either/or. If you can meaningfully reduce demand for a "product" as noxious as CSAM, you should expect the rate of production to slow. There are certainly efforts in place to prevent that production from ever being done, and to prevent it from being shared/hosted once it is, but I don't think attempting to reduce demand in this way is going to hurt.

[–] Silentiea@lemm.ee 9 points 8 months ago* (last edited 8 months ago) (3 children)

Worth noting that, by convention, "i.e." is usually in lower case, and only capitalized when the words themselves would be, i.e. at the start of a sentence.

Edit: typo

[–] Silentiea@lemm.ee 5 points 8 months ago (3 children)

The thing is, they don't. Because no one ever put Elliot in the position of literally being told by everyone around her that she was a man, no one ever told her she was delusional and should find a counsellor to investigate whatever trauma might have caused her to have these incorrect beliefs about herself that let her think she's a woman when she's clearly not.

The people complaining don't understand because they think it's at worst as bad as JD saying Elliot has an Adam's apple, and they don't or won't confront the fact that that'snot what they're doing to trans people. And yeah, those jokes were stupid and transphobic and unnecessary, but even then the whole joke is that it's funny she gets upset about it because no one could ever seriously confuse her gender. People can always tell. Right?

They don't understand, and they refuse to consider ideas that would let them, and that's pretty fucking shitty. But honestly? If I could just chalk it up to malice, life would be a lot easier.

[–] Silentiea@lemm.ee 20 points 8 months ago (9 children)

They will laugh and think it's funny because they don't get why it bothers people. They'll insist that the only reason what you're doing is wrong would be if you were "reinforcing a lie" or some other bull shit.

[–] Silentiea@lemm.ee 7 points 8 months ago (1 children)

On top of that, while I don't doubt that vaping is probably a good way to help someone quit smoking, there are plenty of young people who started or are staying vaping who never smoked and wouldn't have considered it

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