My comment was directed to the blog post and the claims contained in it.
The blog post claims it is popular in academy, if that is a deserved label, then I don't understand how the author of the post lands on "there is no good or bad way, they are all valid". I am in favor of strong juxtaposition but that is not the case that I am making here. Sorry for the confusion.
Depends does he grab them by the pussy?