Wow, this guy's voting record and the bill's he's sponsored read exactly how you'd imagine too.
He was in the Air Force 30 years, was a commercial pilot, and a cop, and none of those jobs ever seemed to manage to teach him to manage the mildest level of stress, judging by his past news stories. What a delicate individual.
Goodbye 9anime. We've had a lot of great times together.
I await the coming of 10anime.
This year feels especially brutal for media liberation. 😮💨
Totally agree with you. I feel bad for the young people that didn't get to experience the Internet before business started to take it seriously. The Fediverse is a nice taste of those days though!
I'm not sure what to make of your "helped me get through feeling much like OP".
I've talked extensively with Blaze and others on the Fedigrow community about pretty much your exact set of bullet points over the past few months and the shine started to wear off Lemmy for a bit. You're far from alone in feeling how you described in your post, as can be seen in most of the replies here.
I think it's just taking a step back and being able to appreciate what we do have. We haven't turned into some complete right/left hellhole, the top posts everyday add up to thousands of comments, we have some quality content providers, and some really fun commenters. I certainly wouldn't be ashamed to show someone my Lemmy feed.
It's good that you still have the drive to want to keep improving things around here in the ways you feel comfortable contributing to. Many initial hurdles to getting on Lemmy feel resolved, and so many in apps are equal to the Reddit apps for most use cases. Many initial accounts were probably from people trying to figure things out. I know I had like 5 accounts and only really use 1 now.
I think we've just hit a plateau for now. My personal feeling is working on the culture is our best way forward to be different than Reddit and to pick up more people looking to escape the toxicity. The time to set our tolerance levels for certain behaviors is now before we get too big to reign it in. We're a pretty good group now, and I hope it stays this way or gets a little better like last summer.
I'm glad when I see people speak up like this though. It makes us all reflect on the guys and bad we see here and to think about where we stand ourselves in all of it.
You and the Fedigrow crew helped me get through feeling much like OP a while back. I think that was a really good idea, because it is tough and emotional at times doing what we do. It can be easy to feel alone when you put yourself out there every day and feel like nobody is around or like you're doing something wrong and people are falling off.
I never set out to be anybody here, but I was done with Reddit, and wanted to keep something that made me smile continue on, so I just sucked it up and did what needed to be done. You guys make it worth it, and as long as the people that do show up are having a good time, I'll do my part to keep the party going. I get old, pre commercialized web vibes from Lemmy, so I'm gonna stick it out here as long as I can, because this is the kind of thing you don't just get anywhere anymore.
Appreciate the shout out as always! We have a great set of people here, and we should all be happy with this place we've built together, even if it's still a humble, cozy place. I feel we have organic growth, and it will come in waves as Lemmy builds and improves. Just keep doing what we're doing and we'll be good!
I feel it is pretty stable here. I post every day, and it's been a tad slower lately, much like I believe Blaze said, feels due to people going away for trips. Weekends are a decent bit slower, where usually they have been busy. That's where I notice it the most. My subs are lower than at the start of the year, but they're still going up slow but steady. Interactions are still steady, which is my main concern. As you've mentioned, people want to see that interaction. I don't want to say my content is useless, because people don't need owl pics and animal rescue facts every day, but I typically get 100+ likes per post, and a handful of comments.
The key I feel though, is I have the same people coming in regularly every day, or every other day, and they are also participating. They make the place look alive more than me just throwing things out there. But that is a specific thing I work on, as much as the post content itself. When people come and make comments, I give them my full attention. I talk back to them, I laugh at their jokes and puns, I take time to answer their questions, I pay attention to what content they like or don't like, how I post links. I treat them like they were clients. And now in return, they see that the community is a fun place to hang, and they come back regularly, even though I'm not giving them anything they couldn't find, but I am adding value to their days. I make them smile, I make them feel like their effort commenting matters, I make them feel like they motivate me to keep posting (because they do!), and I teach them about things they never expected to care about.
But it's a lot of hard work! I try not to think about the time I put into this just for fun. Many of us have been here before the API exodus or before and have put in hours posting to nobody or a dozen people until we've built up momentum. Most people won't even upvote, let alone comment or post, so it's going to come in waves building up this place. You're still in the wilderness here. We're still pretty much the first wave of Fediverse settlers. We're here while it is rough, setting the foundations of what will hopefully come, keeping us from fading to nothing. I don't think new people appreciate that point. It's not like 25% of Reddit broke off and came here with all the posters and the audience, we're starting from scratch. I think what we have is amazing for a bunch of nobodies with no corporate cash. We're all volunteers, building the social media we want to have. We should be proud of it, no matter what stage it's at.
Moderation is an area I feel could be stronger. Most threads are pretty good, but some could use a bit more reigning in. Part of the problem I see with that though, is the vocal part of the community is already hating on "heavy handed mods", and you missed all the trashing of Beehaw for doing what I considered to be appropriate moderation. The Fed is full of a pretty diverse group of people. I talk to people from multiple countries, and the amount of LGBT I've gotten to get insight from has been amazing. It's really helped me grow in my understanding of some things just being around all these people. But we need to ensure everyone is treated equally and respectfully, and there are many that want to bring Reddit behavior over here, and it's up to the mods and commenters to decide if that's what we want or not. I don't want it, but many see no issue. I'm glad when people comment on it, because if people just accept it without speaking up, no one will know.
There is a lot of good here, and even with 50k users, there's going to be much more mid and crap than gold, but it's here. Your comments look good, and you seem to stick to things you enjoy and avoid some that drag you down, and it's important to notice your own behavior if you click stuff that is going to annoy you. I hit delete on a lot of comments when I wade into some of these topics. Some stuff I just don't want to get involved in, especially as someone that is at least somewhat "known" around here now and is too lazy to make an alt. But I remind myself I'm here to have fun, and if I want news without the potential drama, I'll leave here and go to AP or whatever. I'd hope posters would make stuff to help you have a good time, but it's our job to cultivate our own experience ultimately.
I could go on forever talking about this stuff, but I'll stop for now. Just give it time and explore more, and since you seem to comment, keep doing that. It's the best thing for this place. Post, comment, give feedback, repeat.
Summit kicks so much butt! I've tried about a dozen apps, but this is the only one I use, though Connect was good too.
The dev is great, and I've gotten lots of help and same or next day fixes whenever I've reported issues.
It's beautiful, versatile, and powerful, with a great person backing it up.
Looks nice! I sent a link to the gf who's on iPhone. She's always complaining about ads, and I never know what's out there for her as I'm on android. I installed it too so I can give it a look.
After not looking at Reddit's front page in a year, it's a bit of a shock seeing an unfiltered feed! 😮
I agree. In a way, I'd prefer the majority of the bad takes I see to be from bots or paid actors, but from listening to family and coworkers long enough, it's easy to see you don't need to script or pay people to get terrible opinions. Just give them a platform and they'll unfortunately provide themselves to no end.
If it was fake, it'd be easier to write them off. It's much harder to accept that we share the same reality.
I'd like to see a world more like that, but it feels like something that would require a society much different than the one we currently have.
Even your simplified mention of freeing IP not being marketed, in the Internet age, does having an item listed as for sale but out of stock or for an unreasonable price counted as being marketed? It's technically advertised for sale at no real cost, and can be done so in perpetuity. Or they could sell themselves product to show legal sales.
Simple rules and judgement operating under the intentof the law makes sense to rational individuals like us, but with scammy business and individuals, that's why we end up with a complex legal system. If we hate when legal loopholes are taken advantage of, we can't outright hate when laws get more complex.
A few apps have multi-community support where you can group whatever you want, how you want, in one stream. I'm using Summit, but I feel a few other of the bigger apps support it now. I group the AskLemmys, tv/movie communities and different art communities into groups so I can view by category.