Generally I think "I agree with *.hexbear.net" is a pretty telling sign for the opinion that's about to come next
The reason people say stuff like this though is because while you can try to force it into behaving like windows, you're going to get a much better experience if you let go of that and embrace the differences
Tiling window managers, package managers and command line tools are all examples that you just don't really get properly using windows and they provide a lot of the reasons people want to daily drive linux
Sounds like some pretty serious cons
Out of curiosity why do you like qubes? Having everything in a VM doesn't sound that great to me
I get that the main concern of it is security but what do you do that it demands that level of hardening? I've only ever got one virus in my life that I know of as it is and that was on windows