There's easy choices, hard choices and impossible choices. I don't own a car, because I live in a place with good public transit and safe bike infra, so I wouldn't stick it to someone who owns a car because they need it. I don't keep a lawn, that's stupid. Can't remember last time I took a bath at home, no. It's literally impossible to know the origin of most electronics you buy, but I rarely buy them and usually buy second hand. My electricity provider produces only renewable. I try to make better small choices along the way. I'm in no way perfect.
These are things that fit my lifestyle. Some are things you probably can't do, and that's fine. But not buying from the worst online shop in the world is one of the lowest hanging fruits. But sure, continue lying to yourself that personal change isn't necessary. We're not in a hurry.
You're trying to make it sound like the only options are buying super glue from amazon, or never see your kids. You are trying to paint a dramatic picture of reality that isn't true just to justify your lazy lifestyle. I never said I didn't have to make choices, on the contrary. Every day I have to make choices.