Yeah I would say you might as well just go with mint then. Debian based distros are popular for a reason.
EndeavourOS is really probably the best overall option though, as you have the best software availability, but if you're not comfortable using the terminal, I might avoid it. (Although I will say that package management with yay is super easy, just yay [packagename]
to search and install interactively. Also to update your system just alias yay -Syu
to "update" if you have trouble remembering the right flags. I'd really recommend learning to use the terminal regardless of distro, though.)
You can't use mastodon from Lemmy, but you can from some threadiverse software like Kbin.