A tip I have is to move away from manjaro.
When you use a rolling release, you lose one of the main features of stable release distros: Automatic, unattended upgrades. AFAIK, every stable release distro has those, and none of the rolling releases do (except maybe opensuses's new slowroll and centos rolling, but I wouldn't recommend or use them).
Manjaro has other issues too, but that's the big one.
Although I use arch on my laptop, I run debian on my server because I don't want to have to baby it, especially since I primarily access it remotely. Automatic upgrades are one less complication removed, allowing me to focus on my server itself.
As for application deployment itself, I recommend using application containers, either via docker or podman. There are many premade containers for those platforms, for apps like jellyfin, or the various music streaming apps people use to replace spotify (I can't remember any of the top of my head, but I know you have lots of options).
However, there are two caveats to docker (not podman) people should know:
- Docker containers don't auto update. Although you can use something like watchtower to automatically update them. As for podman, podman has an auto update command you can probably configure to run regularly.
- Docker bypasses your firewall. If you forward port 80, docker will go around the firewall and publish it. The reason for this is that most linux firewalls work by using iptables or nftables behind the hood, but docker also edits those directly... this has security implications, I've seen many container services people didn't intend to put on the public internet, on there.
Podman, however, respects your firewall rules. Podman isn't perfect though, there are some apps that won't run in podman containers, although my use case is a little more niche (greenbone service and vulnerability scanner).
As for where to start, projects like linuxserver provide podman/docker containers, which you can use to deploy many apps fairly easily, once you learn how to launch apps with the compose file. Check out this nextcloud dockerized, they provide. Nextcloud is a google drive alternative, although sometimes people complain about it being slow.. I don't know about the quality of linuxserver's nextcloud, so you'd have to do some research for that, and find a good docker container.
Those issues are only common on rolling releases. On stable distros, they put tape between breaking changes, test that tape, and then roll out updates.
Debian, and many other distros support it officially: https://wiki.debian.org/UnattendedUpgrades. It's not just a cronjob running "apt install", but an actual process, including automated checks. You can configure it to not upgrade specific packages, or stick to security updates.
As for containers, it is trivial to rollback versions, which is why unattended upgrades are ok. Although, if data or configuration is corrupted by a bug, then you probably would have to restore from backup (probably something I should have suggested in my initial reply).
It should be noted that unattended upgrade doesn't always mean "upgrade to the latest version". For docker/podman containers, you can pin them to a stable release, and then it will do unattended upgrades within that release, preventing any major breaking changes.
Similarly, on many distros, you can configure them to only do the minimum security updates, while leaving other packages untouched.
I don't really feel like reinstalling the bootloader over ssh, to a machine that doesn't have a monitor, but you do you. There are real significant differences between stable and rolling release distros, that make a stable release more suited for a server, especially one you don't want to baby remotely.
I use arch. But the only reason I can afford to baby a rolling release distro is because I have two laptops (both running arch). I can feel confident that if one breaks, I can use the other. All my data is replicated to each laptop, and backed up to a remote server running syncthing, so I can even reinstall and not lose anything. But I still panicked when I saw that message suggesting that I should reinstall grub.
That remote server? Ubuntu with unattended upgrades, by the way. Most VPS providers will give you a linux distro image with unattended security upgrades enabled because it removes a footgun from the customer. On Contabo with Rocky 9, it even seems to do automatic reboots. This ensures that their customers don't have insecure, outdated binaries or libraries.
Docker is a way for me to run services on my server. Literally every other service application respects the firewall. Sometimes I want services to be exposed on my home network, but not on a public wifi, something docker isn't capable of doing, but the firewall is. Sometimes I may want to configure a service while keeping it running. Or maybe I want to test it locally. Or maybe I want to use it locally
It's only docker where you have to deal with something like this:
Originally from here, edited for brevity.
Resulting in exposed services. Feel free to look at shodan or zoomeye, internet connected search engines, for exposed versions of this service. This service is highly dangerous to expose, as it gives people an in to your system via the docker socket.
Do any of those poor saps on zoomeye expect that I can pwn them by literally opening a webpage?
No. They expect their firewall to protect them by not allowing remote traffic to those ports. You can argue semantics all you want, but not informing people of this gives them another footgun to shoot themselves with. Hence, docker "bypasses" the firewall.
On the other hand, podman respects your firewall rules. Yes, you have to edit the rules yourself. But that's better than a footgun. The literal point of a firewall is to ensure that any services you accidentally have running aren't exposed to the internet, and docker throws that out the window.