spujb

joined 11 months ago
[–] spujb@lemmy.cafe 0 points 1 week ago

“as a man who has definitely worked food service, THANK YOU for speaking out against individuals tipping me. me personally i hate getting tips! and it REALLY shows my boss what’s what, any day now he’s going to pay me a living wage, you sure are showing him!” —my impression of every individual downvoting you

[–] spujb@lemmy.cafe 0 points 1 week ago

oof another internet user who thinks two things can’t be true at once 💔

“yeah i know i slashed your tires but at least i’m not as bad as the oil and motor lobbies that make it so you’re reliant on your car to fucking commute to work and not starve, you should be grateful next time” — that’s how you sound 🫶

[–] spujb@lemmy.cafe 13 points 4 months ago

yes! i wanted to mention this, that hair can be a sensory overload problem too so cutting hair can just be a way to optimize sensory performance in a state of stress as well. but i forgot so thanks for the reminder!

[–] spujb@lemmy.cafe 141 points 4 months ago (26 children)

it happens in movies because it happens in real life too. when in crisis, often there is sense of loss of control or autonomy. for most, something that can provide an outlet for such a frustration is one’s appearance. and, while men do too, women broadly tend to have the more intimate relationship with their hair. so: haircut (or hair dye, or both).

[–] spujb@lemmy.cafe -1 points 4 months ago (1 children)

kind of already answered my question, just wanted to see if current moderators for !modlog were sufficiently active :) thanks for popping in to answer

[–] spujb@lemmy.cafe 4 points 4 months ago (1 children)

yep, posted to !modlog@lemmy.world and it immediately made a downturn 🥲

[–] spujb@lemmy.cafe 2 points 4 months ago (3 children)

TIL! pinging @Soullioness@lemmy.world to see if they’re active and/or have thoughts.

cuz yeah my most recent callout post went to !196@lemmy.blahaj.zone and a lot of people got really upset at me for being “off topic” 😓 (it was effective btw, yay!)

[–] spujb@lemmy.cafe 1 points 4 months ago (1 children)

ah understandable! thanks for sharing your thoughts and hope you can get some rest :)

[–] spujb@lemmy.cafe 1 points 4 months ago (3 children)

Hmm it almost seems like you are responding to a different post? I didn’t really say much about timeliness here. :) This is more about corrupt or inappropriate moderation activity.

[–] spujb@lemmy.cafe 0 points 4 months ago (1 children)

Nope not really that wouldn’t be good for my health (:

[–] spujb@lemmy.cafe -1 points 4 months ago (3 children)

Appreciate the effort in responding, but I count 20 instances that defederate yours, covering several thousand users. That kind of hobbles the functionality of this as a concept. :/

[–] spujb@lemmy.cafe 5 points 4 months ago

Yeah, I suppose my idea of a decentralized accountability sublemmy would just help make that process a little more efficient.

Obviously it’s still rough and a mess but I think it’s a fair enough decentralized fit-in for Reddit’s centralized moderation authority.

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