sunbeam60

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[–] sunbeam60@lemmy.one 24 points 11 months ago

It’s not that simple. It just isn’t.

As a parent you’re in a constant balancing act between disconnecting from your teenager while also trying to provide guard rails to aid their maturity and growth. If you lose a battle in an area, their friends (and the wider world, because remember they have a phone) are more than happy to help raise them.

It’s always a compromise. You can stand your ground hard on area and that’s another shard of their life that you don’t have influence on and won’t hear about. Every channel between you and your kids have to be balanced between guidance and enforcement.

[–] sunbeam60@lemmy.one 9 points 11 months ago

I’m a dad of four kids. I don’t yearn for the good old days, but I do wish social media companies were legally obliged to ensure kids are 16 before they let them into their platforms. There’s a tremendous amount of pressure to conform and it affects girls in particular. Most 14 year olds aren’t in my opinion mature enough to put a phone down when it starts to become a negative influence on them.

May I ask you a direct question: Are you raising teens? If so, what are your impressions of how they use their phones (for good and bad)?

If you’ve not raised kids during this decade, is it possible you may not have seen first hand what happens?

[–] sunbeam60@lemmy.one 11 points 11 months ago* (last edited 11 months ago)

Nothing here is contractual. It’s just words. The founders at Affinity are now employees. Canva feel no connection to the community - if their agenda for Affinity was exactly the way things are now, there’d be no need to acquire them.

[–] sunbeam60@lemmy.one 2 points 11 months ago

Every single team I’ve worked in that needed a 3D creation tool has been on Maya. Certainly in the games industry it’s the 99.99% standard.

[–] sunbeam60@lemmy.one 3 points 11 months ago

Literally these messages could be written by an AI, they’re so generic.

“We’re thrilled”: we’ve been paid to be happy and have golden handcuffs on. “Nothing will change”: We’re busy popping champagne bottles and ordering private jets and besides this isn’t our concern any more. The new owner will eventually make some changes I’d imagine. “We’re committed to”: we are making no promises and until we announce changes we will fully back the current policies.

[–] sunbeam60@lemmy.one 17 points 1 year ago

She knows the answer. She doesn’t the legal status of the answer, so she blanks. Been there before, I’ve got some sympathy for being in the limelight and being asked a tough question.

As my media trainer said, if you aren’t willing to discuss a subject, make it a condition of the interview. Once the camera rolls, declining to answer seems incredibly suspect.

[–] sunbeam60@lemmy.one 11 points 1 year ago (1 children)

It’s all of those. As a father of teenagers, I can definitely add a subjective opinion that phones are TERRIBLE for teenagers. It reinforces all their fears and multiplies all their false certainties.

[–] sunbeam60@lemmy.one 1 points 1 year ago

Yes they can but for now they are all still using WebKit.

[–] sunbeam60@lemmy.one 4 points 1 year ago
[–] sunbeam60@lemmy.one -1 points 1 year ago

Yeah, “it’s bad parenting” is tantamount to saying “guns don’t kill people, people do”.

I mean, people do kill people and crap parents do give their kids a phone too early.

But if you remove easy access to weapons and easy access to powerful computers beaming addictive social cues into children’s retinas 24/7 you definitely have an impact on negative incidents.

[–] sunbeam60@lemmy.one 3 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Myeah, I agree that they’ve added quite a lot of features. But I do think they’re very well hidden, while remaining discoverable. You can use them if you like; if not they don’t get in the way. YMMV of course.

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