sunbeam60

joined 2 years ago
[–] sunbeam60@lemmy.one 1 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (2 children)

I know I’m an old cranky Lemmy user and in the distinct minority here, where my impression is that the average age is somewhere in the 20s.

But as 40-something dad of four, I can wholeheartedly say that I would approve of this. And I’m saying this as a bleeding-heart “let people make their own choices”.

But I do believe we will come to view smartphone access (leading to Social media access and 1000s ephemeral Snapchat and WhatsApp groups) for under 16s like we now do selling cigarettes to children.

Before people decide how wrong I am, I’d really like them to try and raise children with smart phone and a race-to-the-bottom challenge where some absentee-parents child gets a smart phone in year 4 and then it sets off an avalanche.

Parent controls do not work on iPhone. And when I say “they don’t work” I don’t mean “they’re not effective”. I mean they’re broken and do not work. If Apple gave a shit and actually fixed it and if accounts on SoMe sites were age verified I’d feel very different about it.

[–] sunbeam60@lemmy.one 24 points 1 year ago

Well of course. It’s still right - the ecosystem lock-in is insane. There needs to be a standard for cloud to cloud transfer between providers.

Or you know, use Proton Pass or 1Password.

[–] sunbeam60@lemmy.one 1 points 1 year ago

Could be the VPN provider or the NAS (cpu)

[–] sunbeam60@lemmy.one 3 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)
  • ChatGPT
  • Midjourney
  • YouTube Premium (which I get through a mobile phone subscription at a heavy discount)
  • Spotify
  • Channel4 ad-free (UK broadcaster)

In addition I support a range of software through GitHub and Patreon:

  • PhotoPrism
  • Gluetun
  • Little Navmap
  • wg-easy
  • DuckDNS

Finally I’ve got paid access to a couple of major and minor media sources:

  • Washington Post
  • Jyllands Posten (largest Danish newspaper)
  • Olfi (specialised Danish defense news, named after a Danish frigate Olfert Fisher)
  • Krigskunst (“The Art of War”, specialised Danish defense podcast)
  • Det Hemmeligste at Det Hemmelige (podcast about spy craft and stay behind movements during the Cold War - just gone behind a pay wall but used to run on a public service channel)
[–] sunbeam60@lemmy.one 11 points 1 year ago

Completely. Teams is EVERYWHERE in post-start-up businesses.

[–] sunbeam60@lemmy.one 10 points 1 year ago

Because the unbundling is happening due to EU intervention and the ISP oligopoly is in the US, and not within the jurisdiction of the EU.

[–] sunbeam60@lemmy.one 24 points 1 year ago

It’s not that simple. It just isn’t.

As a parent you’re in a constant balancing act between disconnecting from your teenager while also trying to provide guard rails to aid their maturity and growth. If you lose a battle in an area, their friends (and the wider world, because remember they have a phone) are more than happy to help raise them.

It’s always a compromise. You can stand your ground hard on area and that’s another shard of their life that you don’t have influence on and won’t hear about. Every channel between you and your kids have to be balanced between guidance and enforcement.

[–] sunbeam60@lemmy.one 9 points 1 year ago

I’m a dad of four kids. I don’t yearn for the good old days, but I do wish social media companies were legally obliged to ensure kids are 16 before they let them into their platforms. There’s a tremendous amount of pressure to conform and it affects girls in particular. Most 14 year olds aren’t in my opinion mature enough to put a phone down when it starts to become a negative influence on them.

May I ask you a direct question: Are you raising teens? If so, what are your impressions of how they use their phones (for good and bad)?

If you’ve not raised kids during this decade, is it possible you may not have seen first hand what happens?

[–] sunbeam60@lemmy.one 11 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

Nothing here is contractual. It’s just words. The founders at Affinity are now employees. Canva feel no connection to the community - if their agenda for Affinity was exactly the way things are now, there’d be no need to acquire them.

[–] sunbeam60@lemmy.one 2 points 1 year ago

Every single team I’ve worked in that needed a 3D creation tool has been on Maya. Certainly in the games industry it’s the 99.99% standard.

[–] sunbeam60@lemmy.one 3 points 1 year ago

Literally these messages could be written by an AI, they’re so generic.

“We’re thrilled”: we’ve been paid to be happy and have golden handcuffs on. “Nothing will change”: We’re busy popping champagne bottles and ordering private jets and besides this isn’t our concern any more. The new owner will eventually make some changes I’d imagine. “We’re committed to”: we are making no promises and until we announce changes we will fully back the current policies.

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