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Wait, so her saying what you both already wanted somehow made things worse? That doesn't make sense, surely a "Perfect! I don't want romance to get in the way of the friendship we have." would've kept things as they were?
Making it clear what the boundaries of the relationship are should make things better, not worse.
That's really too bad, and really highlights the importance of being upfront about expectations.
I had a few girls who weren't cool with me being able to shut-down my romantic interest the moment we had that conversation. Turns out, we weren't friends, I was just their back-up.
Most insisted later I missed my chance to try being more assertive, but none liked learning their "crush"-perks weren't ever exclusive or crush-related; The crush just meant I hadn't let them see me treat others similarly.
It is so strange, all these assumptions