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Now I'm questioning your biases.
There's nothing wrong or inappropriate with discussing sexuality/homosexuality with your kids but it absolutely is inappropriate for advertisers to try to target children's insecurities with "are you gay?" tests.
And these are not actual "tests". They're malware. You click on the "test" and a million porn pop ups will open and it starts asking for your email and phone number.
Kids should not be exposed to these. Hell, adults shouldn't even be.
I don't think spam pop ups need you defending its right to scam children.
All of them I'd hope. Those gross underwear ads, porn ads, etc. Kids should not be exposed to sexual advertisements over the internet.
It seems like you're trying to pull a narrative out of thin air to imply the researchers are homophobic?
In the current political climate, where even just telling kids that trans and/or gay people exist seems to be seen as bad, that’s not too weird to have questions about.
I fully agree.
I think that the way in which we ask those questions is also very important.
They make a good case these tests are exploiting the political climate and illegally targeting minors to make themselves money.
I believe we do this conversation a disservice if we prejudge researchers and jump to conclusions too early when they point out this relationship might be inappropriate.
You’re classifying all of these as malicious by virtue of being ads, which the researchers obviously didn’t. Take that up with them.
I question the idea that the reason these were classified as inappropriate was because of sexual pop ups. If that was the case than many innocuous sites with crappy ad practices would have also made it onto the list.
Knowing that queer people exist and that you could be queer isn’t “sexual advertisement,” by the way. Which is why I wanted to know more about how the researchers came to the conclusion that these particular ads were inappropriate.
I think you misunderstood the researchers. Quoting the article:
It appears as though the researchers in the article are the ones painting all targeted ads as inherently malicious, involving psychological manipulation.
Which is 73% of them. This is already supposed to be illegal.
As children are especially vulnerable to manipulation, there seems to be a correct moral stance and it's not "advertisers should be free to psychologically manipulate children".
It comes across like you feel we can't protect gay/minority children from being exploited by huge corporations online because it would be homophobic to protect gay kids from psychological manipulation.
The researchers didn't classify anything as inappropriate based on pop up ads. That was me explaining to you how they work.
The ad pages have links on them to other ad pages so it's all one big beast and in action clicking on a gay test could lead to an overtly sexual one or vice versa. Sometimes they both open at the same time in different tabs.
The article explains the researchers downloaded the ads offline and so didn't interact with them through normal means.
So it's a combo of pop ups and banner ads.
Yeah.. obviously I agree that a PSA on gay rights and an "are you gay?" test are not the same thing.
Letting the wider public know queer people exist, and then using psychological manipulation to (illegally remember) target gay children and try to exploit their vulnerabilities are two hugely different things.
The PSA is protecting gay kids, the spam test is attacking them.
What is your point?
Fair question, I'd like to know also. But while raising the question you assumed ill intent and were questioning their biases.
All it says is that it's considered inappropriate.
Ads for engagement rings being listed along the "are you gay?" tests shows me that both heterosexuality and homosexuality are being treated more or less equally here. Engagement rings aren't particularly inappropriate except that they're used for marriage.
Psychologically manipulating children using the most vulnerable groups as clickbait to try to get them to enter personal information is wrong and children haven't developed their brains enough to protect them.
These aren't tests made by queer people to promote innocuous queer products. These are tests made by soulless capitalists trying to exploit insecurity to make them money.
Why should these companies have a right to exploit the insecurities of young kids?
It's not homophobic to prevent minorities from being manipulated.
This is some weird ass fanfic you are writing about me for asking how the researchers came to their conclusions about LGBT ads, specifically, being judged to be inappropriate. I’m not engaging with this anymore.
I'm also asking how the researchers came to their conclusions on what is and isn't appropriate. Neither of us have the answer.
Beyond that you don't seem to understand that an "are you gay?" test illegally targetted to children with the intent of stealing their data is much more likely to be hate speech than an "LGBT ad".
You're giving a lot of benefit of the doubt towards an online quiz breaking the law, psychologically manipulating and illegally targeting children, and barely any benefit of the doubt to scientific researchers and that bias seems really odd to me.