this post was submitted on 21 Oct 2025
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I think many people can benefit from understanding how to strike up conversations with strangers generally. If you're already comfortable making small talk in a line, with your seat neighbor at a bar or communal table at a restaurant, talking to fellow dog owners at the dog park,v or getting to know people during a meet and greet at a conference or happy hour, swinging by a new colleague's desk just to say hi and get to know them, you'll get a sense of what types of interactions are comfortable and flow naturally.
If you're not comfortable approaching men, women who are with their significant others, people clearly outside your dating age range with small talk or simple conversations, it's hard to build the skill and experience of approaching women you'd like to date if you don't already have the foundation of approaching people you don't want to date.
It's also a great way to address the actual core premise of this post, that there are a lot of lonely people who could use friend making skills too.