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[–] GrammarPolice@lemmy.world -4 points 3 months ago (2 children)

It's an insult if you intend it to be. In a vacuum, calling someone tennis-playing wouldn't necessarily qualify as an insult, but context specific instances might make it one.

Also, since you said there's nothing wrong with being brown-eyed, there's similarly nothing wrong with being a dicksucker or a dickrider. It only becomes an insult if you're trying to ridicule someone on the basis of that

[–] Cowbee@lemmy.ml 8 points 3 months ago (1 children)

Yes, calling someone brown-eyed or tennis-playing are not used as pejoratives, but using terms like "dicksucker" and "dickrider" are. Rather than using perfectly good insults like "sycophant," those previous terms are used to draw on societal shame towards marginalized groups. Calling people "r-worded" was phased out for similar reasons, it throws marginalized communities under the bus as an insult, especially because those called "dickriders" are not literally having sex with the other party. This is very cut and dry.

[–] BrainInABox@lemmy.ml 2 points 3 months ago (1 children)

"There's nothing wrong with being Jewish or having a big nose, so calling someone a Big-Nosed Jew as an insult isn't bigoted!"

Least obviously disingenuous bigot.

[–] GrammarPolice@lemmy.world -2 points 3 months ago (1 children)

Huh? What you did there was clearly a motivated insult. What the fuck is your point here

[–] BrainInABox@lemmy.ml 0 points 3 months ago

That was my point, genius.