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[–] captainlezbian@lemmy.world 3 points 5 days ago

I agree with all that, but I'll also say that getting started fixing your issues first is a hugely valuable thing. If you haven't it's so easy to think love will solve all your problems while not even having the tools to deal with your own emotions and baggage.

You need people, we all do, and we deteriorate rapidly without people. But romantic relationships are really easy to screw up by being emotionally unhealthy