Technology

I think you’re correct in both aspects for sure. Parents are certainly less involved, for the most part, in informing their kids of literally anything. It is much easier to ‘offload any and all responsibilities’ as you put it. iPad kids are a good example of this. Handing a 2yr old a video device and walking away is not parenting. This is an issue with many many topics from internet safety, to general life things, to talks about their bodies. Parents do not want to parent.

I’d also agree, largely, the parents just don’t know, or care. Privacy is, unfortunately, a niche thing to know and care about.

I see this as more like the patriot act- gover ent and big tech are pushing to elevate concerns of "the children's safety" to violate our privacy and sell data. Same way the patriot act is so you can "keep all the evil bad man terrorists" at bay but really it's an excuse to violate our rights "legally" in the name of "safety".

I have siblings like that. Literally never seen them parent. I've changed more of their kids' diapers than I have seen them do, and I have no kids. It's kind of irritating in an understatement kind of way. My poor niblings

It seems like a pretty common thing for people to expect that the luxuries of modern technology include not having to do anything you don't want to, including being present for your own life.

People make self-destructive choices every day. (insert "always have been" 🌏🧑‍🚀🔫🧑‍🚀)

There's two ways to view what you just said there. Parents aren't parenting, but you can't speak for someone elses emotions about it. And it's more constructive to a problem (rather than adding to it) to ask why, to figure out what's happening, with compassion, so as to help it be repaired.

Here's another example, drug addicts, quite often you will hear people judging and shaming their behaviours, without asking why, or looking at their choices with compassion and an eye to repair the problems for them. Most often, very very abused children, grow up to self medicate their internal agony, caused by what they've lived through. You wouldn't then choose locking them up in jail to help repair.

You're talking about kids, maybe some of them go on to be these same drug addicts.

I would suggest this whole problem with the unsupervised parenting / disconnected parenting is capitalism. And it's by design.

People have kids (mostly) because they want them, they love them. I would argue very few would want to be parenting poorly. So why are they?

Could it be that there's no opportunity to stay home and raise kids. Raising kids, is work, and it is hard work, has been so hugely devalued, intentionally, so as to be able to remove it as needing space in people's lives. Who thinks it's admirable to stay home and raise kids? That is an opinion that has been societally planted, to serve the bourgeois.

Actual paid work, who can live without working? Multiple jobs, even. That's also by design.

Capitalism also designed this system we are all currently using, of a family in a singular home. It wasn't like that, previously. So no village, no desperately needed support for raising kids.

Jobs burn you out, we aren't designed to live like this, but there's little to no flexibility, and parenting burns you out, and theres little to no support for that, now. Who has energy left after that, to also find all the ways in which tech is attacking this week.

I would argue, partially, the solve for poor parenting, would be to start rolling out some guillotines.

But also, raising a kid is supposed to be the job of a village, I'm sure you've heard that. To be a good parent, you need a full tank, but all the avenues for refilling your tank have been removed.

We should all care about fixing this, it is our next generation. I don't believe hating on the singular parents trapped in this hellhole, is the answer.