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[–] sunbeam60@lemmy.one 57 points 9 months ago* (last edited 9 months ago) (25 children)

I’ve put through kids through secondary and have two more to go. I universally regret giving them a smartphone at year 7. For the first one we fought valiantly - we said no; she and one other girl in her whole year didn’t have a smart phone. Within 6 months it became clear that she was missing out on a lot of events by not having a phone. We caved in and bought one of those neutered android phones meant for younger people - it sucked and basically didn’t work. After 9 months we got her a used iPhone.

It was also the wrong thing to do. Social media immediately starts shaping them and we still have restrictions on which networks they can go on. She can pry Instagram out of my cold dead hands; that site is liquid poison for a young girl.

[–] TheDarksteel94@sopuli.xyz 18 points 9 months ago (10 children)

Lol, I would've been bullied in school if I didn't have a phone. At least in later grades when phones became more popular.

[–] Evkob@lemmy.ca 7 points 9 months ago (1 children)

I didn't have a phone until I was 16 despite most of my peers getting one around 12/13. I didn't get bullied for not having a phone, in fact no one really made any comments on it other than an occasional "wow, I couldn't live without my phone!"

Granted, this was over ten years ago, and was probably the first generation of teenagers where cell phones were near-ubiquitous. I don't know if kids nowadays would get bullied just for not having a phone, but it would severely limit their social interactions. Riding your bike and knocking at your friends' doors randomly, or going to the mall and expecting you'll find some people you know there, these are from a bygone era.

[–] TheDarksteel94@sopuli.xyz 5 points 9 months ago

I had a phone, but it was an old one, so people made fun of that.

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