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[–] Reverendender@sh.itjust.works 15 points 11 months ago (3 children)

Sorry bro, but some women may want to be asked, and some women find it to be an immediate red flag weird thing to do demonstrating lack of confidence. You can’t win.

[–] kilgore_trout@feddit.it 19 points 11 months ago (1 children)

You don't want the ones who see red flags everywhere. This won't change into the relationship.

[–] Reverendender@sh.itjust.works 8 points 11 months ago

This is a good and valid point

[–] Anaphylactic_Gock@midwest.social 9 points 11 months ago (1 children)

I apologize for my gender. We really should've formed a monolithic hivemind so we can all want the same things by now.

[–] Reverendender@sh.itjust.works 3 points 11 months ago

Yeah, get on that!

/s

[–] oshitwaddup@lemmy.antemeridiem.xyz 8 points 11 months ago

Eh, some people don't want to be asked, but also, if they can't handle being asked (especially for the first kiss. Later kisses rarely need to be so explicit) then you're probably dodging a bullet anyways.