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Someone who just wants to host a lemmy server would give up way earlier than this.

I think anyone just wanting to host a lemmy server would do a single compose stack on a single server.
In a different project, im currently fighting tcp sockets disconnecting between a 3rd party containet and a postgres container. I know its tcp_keepalive settings somewhere, and obviously isnt an issue when everything is being used, but having a database connection get dropped overnight and not gracefully restarted on first use the next day is a massive PITA!
So, Im just shotgunning TCP Keepalive settings on hosts, docker sysctls, wherever i can find any appropriate setting, until the problem goes away (then i might remove some until it reappears)