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I'll posit a (very poorly and drunkenly abridged) story from the Buddha that I actually think of on a somewhat daily basis, in contrast of all the Buddha-bad comments:
So when people get angry at me over things that are beyond my control, I reject their anger, let them yell at what they think is the problem, and move on.
Then the Buddha punches me in the face and I am enlightened.
I don't accept buddhas punch
I don't accept the IRS's gift
Reject gifts from a demigod, in this economy???
As heartening and insightful as this story might be, I find it difficult to imagine that someone with this much hate would at the same possess enough composure to state his problem clearly, take part in the Buddha’s spiel about it, and then not punch him in the face at the end.
And I’m not suggesting that this would be a better outcome by any means, rather, that stories like this are sadly sometimes woefully inadequate to deal with the amount of anger and rage that continues to pervade modern society.
You're missing the point. This is about the Buddha not accepting the hate and thus not being frustrated over it.
No I get that. I’m just saying in a real life situation, the other guy might not give a damn about whether you accept his hate and let you have it anyways.
That doesn't matter, Buddha DGAF
I mean, there IS the story of Angulimala, a vicious murderer who had already slain 999 victims and was looking to make it a round thousand when he ran into the Buddha, but try as he might, he could not catch up to him, even though the Buddha was walking calmly.
So clearly, he does indeed NGAF because he is in possession of some mysterious force powers likely reserved only for the enlightened, but what is an average person to do in such a situation?
Laugh at their stupid anger? Fuck em dude, I do this shit regularly, it's not worth getting upset over. I work in IT, dealing with ignorant angry people daily.
You can win them over sometimes, but sometimes they're just an inconsolable asshole and that's really more of a them problem than a you problem.
this wasnt an explaining answer in any way to the guy Buddha is just an ass
I don't think he asks that question in the original story. Drunk me was just giving him more dialogue.
oh well drunk yous budda is an ass (not you tho you seem preety alr)
An understanding of Internal vs External locus of control coupled with thick skin will get you pretty much as far as you want to in life.