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Default instances would go a long way, I know there's a lot of hate for lemmy.world but defaulting to the biggest instance or a random one in the top 10 would help ease some of the early friction. Users can choose an instance later when they get more comfortable with the platform.
Federation is neat but the average person just wants to scroll and chat
Top 10 ( https://lemmy.fediverse.observer/list )
I made a more complete analysis in this post https://lemmy.dbzer0.com/post/37336391 (pinned on !fedibridge@lemmy.dbzer0.com ), nowadays I basically go with:
" Lemmy has 47k monthly active users
Feel free if you have any questions"
Because yes, the USA/EU question appeared during the Luigi announcement in LW.
I would suggest something like https://phtn.app/ as an alternative desktop frontend (also has mobile view support)
This looks so nice!!
Thats very nice actually, can it be self hosted? Might use that as my desktop frontend.
I completely agree. People who have never had to do this before May not know what to pick and never sign up because of it.
Defaulting to any one instance would be against the goals of federation, I think. Much better to have a centralized site to help people find an instance that uses factors that wouldn't bias too much. Perhaps pushing towards "general purpose" instances that would make geographical sense. And then you could highlight instances that cater towards more specific groups. But I think the goal of this would be to spread users across many instances rather than funnel them all towards one.
I might propose having something things like server ping be a factor, and capacity of the instance. Perhaps instances could also be shown with their largest communities so that people could see the vibe of the instance before they join.
A geographically based default is a great idea.
I know I favour this, but I may be biased.
My main tip for picking an instance is go for a region or topic specific instance so your local feed is manageable and relevant.
Default instances would go a long way, I know there’s a lot of hate for lemmy.world but defaulting to the biggest instance or a random one in the top 10 would help ease some of the early friction.
I'd rather join-lemmy (and join-fediverse) were smarter.
Have a series of questions (for join-fediverse add "what service do you want?"):
Where are you?
What languages do you speak?
Select your hobbies from the list below:
And it then spits out 2 or 3 instances.
It's what I'd do if someone asked me directly for a recommendation and should be relatively easy to do.
As we say with someone posting a link to db0 on r/piracy, if you just say to people "this is the instance for you" and it seems relevant then they make the jump. I'm tempted to go to the main subs for Canada, Australia, the UK, etc and just post a link to the relevant instance.
Be ready to get your post removed for self promotion, and yourself banned. That's what I noticed on most countries subs (except Australia I guess? !melbourne@aussie.zone still thriving everyday)
Default instances would go a long way
No, suggesting actual websites to people, rather than "Lemmy", would go a long way.
Default instances result in centralization. In recreating the existing structures that, ostensibly, we're all here to reject.
won’t recommend Lemmy to many of my friends or family because I know they will give up
Yeah, when I first started out here, my experience was like this:
I went to the join Lemmy page, then clicked to show all servers. Then waited. And waited. Then I went to bed.
By the next morning, the list of servers had managed to load. I spotted one that was advertised as "recommended for users to join to reduce load on the Fediverse", which seemed like a good idea after seeing how even the join page was battling to load.
Found out that the server I joined seemed to have all sorts of issues loading content. And was apparently de-federated from a bunch of instances that align with my interests. So search results were showing me little to nothing in regards to queer communities for example, only dead communities.
Signed up on world instead and encountered multiple posts that said they had comments but loaded nothing. Found out that there were no languages selected in my settings. So I selected 'undefined', scrolled down, selected 'English', then saved.
I was still missing a bunch of posts after that, so I went back to settings and saw that 'undefined' was deselected again. That's when I realised that you have to ctrl click each language you choose or else it just deselects the previous language that you clicked on.
Finally success! 3 or 4 days later. And now I'm here.
I would love to recommend Lemmy to the few people I know who use Reddit. But I can't see any of them trying without just giving up and going back to the place where all you need to do is sign up and hey presto, content to look at and interact with.
I have a feeling that even the process of choosing an instance would probably put them off. I could give advice but there's only so much I could do or explain without being there in person helping them. If they have to read walls of text explaining how to get started, it would probably end there.
I'm not sure what the solution is though, or if there even is one. It might just be a little bit like trying to recommend Linux to people who just want to be able to push a button and go. Which is the majority, based on what I've seen.
Also just one last thing and something that has been discussed to death. There's just not enough content here yet for the average person to see any reason to switch over from the place with all the content.
And on that note, recommending this place to people that I know in real life would be too risky right now that they would see my account and figure out who I am. Because there isn't a crowd of a million people to slip into and disappear here. And this isn't Facebook. I don't want people to know about the very personal things I sometimes say on anonymous social media.
- I was still missing a bunch of posts after that, so I went back to settings and saw that 'undefined' was deselected again. That's when I realised that you have to ctrl click each language you choose or else it just deselects the previous language that you clicked on.
This actually took me multiple months to figure out, Lemmy felt like a ghost town, now it feels like a small town at least
FYI, I added your initial post to this one https://lemmy.dbzer0.com/post/37336391 as a reason why join-lemmy.org isn't a good recommendation
These things are so important to get right. We should address them, we're likely losing so many users because you're average person isn't going to spend more than 10min to figure it out, definitely not 4 days
Feel free to crosspost to !fedibridge@lemmy.dbzer0.com, it's a community dedicated to promote Lemmy and make it more welcoming to new joiners, so your post would fit right in!
Thank you, I will do that and join their cause
It's not that popular of a concept on here, probably since there's massive selection bias (everyone here evidently found a way to struggle through), but you're completely right and I find that that lazer focus on usability is one place that Open Source advocates and projects often struggle with.
And personally, I think it's because most open source projects are built and run by programmers since they're the ones who can build an open source project, whereas a consumer facing site like Reddit / FB / TikTok/ IG, would be planned out and designed by a product manager, working closely with a designer and market researcher, and then get programmers to build that for them.
It's a model that's really difficult to pull off though in a community primarily consisting of programmers volunteering their free time, but I think it's worth keeping that in mind. Open Source projects that are consumer facing (and especially ones that rely on network effects), really need to work hard to stay in that user facing headspace.
That's the problem yes, but we can make small changes that will have a huge impact.
It's a very easy change to default 'Auto expand media' to true for half of new users, and see what effect it has over a few months. It's also a fun experiment with no real drawbacks.
It's a very easy change to default 'Auto expand media' to true for half of new users, and see what effect it has over a few months. It's also a fun experiment with no real drawbacks.
Writing the code to do that is very easy, determining what metrics are actually important and impact user success and what metrics accurately track user success is much harder.
I do generally agree though! Personally I just asked the instance admins of lemmy.ca to redirect lemmy.ca/r/... URLs to lemmy.ca/c/... URLs (rather than 404ing), as a tiny user facing feature for Redditors coming over, and they did it in a second.
Agreed. And the default UI hasn't even gotten attention in the past. It's just there. My experience with Lemmy has been that the devs fix bugs, but they're mostly focused on the backend. I'm not sure about the consequences, though. A lot of people seem to be using phone apps, so their default might not even be Lemmy's UX.
Which in turn is probably the reason why the devs dont focus on Web ui
We have a few different frontends available on feddit.uk, you can easily tell a new user that there are different ways of viewing the same content and to pick their favourite
Sure but is the default https://feddit.uk/ ? because that sucks, and many people will give up before finding https://p.feddit.uk/
It's something I've raised with the other Admins and we may see if our users would be up for swapping the default frontend to one of the others.
I am almost certainly not the "normal" user, but the default theme is much better usability wise than the "p" version. The one would have me looking for an alternative UI/app.
That's a great point and a really low hanging fruit that would likely help with adoption and retention. The defaults weren't great for me either.
Personally I find the UX better on PieFed (unless it's for a part where most of the development hasn't happened yet, so yeah it's hit or miss). See e.g. the tiling view.
Yeah, if I hadn't been so committed to Rexit, I doubt I would have stuck around long enough to find a UX that I liked. Just to name one, it'd be nice if MLMYM were a default skin.
I had to find this theme (and tweak the colours a bit) to just stand the site. The userscript Lemmytools also helps a bit, albeit half broken.
That's my point, it's so many loops people aren't going to jump through.
Mastodon: When you block someone they no longer can interact with you or your content Lemmy: When you "block" someone they can mine your content forever
Nothing you can really do about preventing someone from looking at your posts unless you make your profile private, and I don't think Lemmy has that concept.
Yeah also the blocking instances capabilities on Lemmy are a fucking joke
Block an instance at user level? You still have to deal with their users and you see crossposts
Defederate an instance? You still see their crossposts if someone from another instance does it
What part of that counts as blocking? It should be as nuclear as possible, that's what blocking is for, because someone doesn't want anything to do with them.
Also I know Lemmy is not private, but not being able to completely delete posts/comments still irks me.
Spot on buddy. The web interface was rough AF until I got the app I’m using. People are going to give up easily. I’m tech savy and was an early adopter but gave up then with everything I was hearing I gave it a second shot.