Technology

People are downvoting cuz OP said this site is becoming misogynistic plus OP didn’t include the right “sample size.”

But can we be fucking honest? This website is incredibly male dominated. Like why are we arguing this? I woulda figured it was closer to like 95% male users…

And many folks (read: men) on this website don’t like calling out the reality that these heavily male-skewed outlooks can be misogynistic. Like, yeah, you bring tons of men in a room with no women, people will start to say misogynistic shit. It’s not reddit-level bad, but I’ve definitely noticed it.

You're talking about a specific instance Lemmy.ml which isn't even the biggest instance, but basically a tankie instance.

You should at least bring together the data of the biggest top 10 instances.

I also wonder how that website decides if I'm male or female.

Lemmy mainly attracts nerds and people into niche technology, which is already predominantly composed of men, so yeah, obviously

Doesn't mean it will be misogynistic. People just don't need to act like assholes and we'll be good

How do you track gender category when it is not listed or asked anywhere on the forums?

One instance isn't representative of the whole network.

Where does the data come from? I don't think Lemmy stores such kind of data.

Lemmy.ml specifically? I doubt if it's representative of Lemmy as a whole.

If you think about it, it kinda makes sense. The fediverse is not a safe place for women especially not the average normie women, due to the fediverse's very public nature of things and general inability to really delete anything.

Reddit can detect and deal with stalkers, you can make your profile more private. Lemmy can't do a whole lot when every instance is firehosing all the data in realtime to everyone's servers. It's a scary amount of data I have in my local Postgres database: everyone's every vote, comments, tied to a profile, with accurate timestamps and all.

If they use an instance without the image proxying, I can also potentially trick them into loading an image from my server and collect IP addresses and correlate to a user via vote timing, and then use GeoIP to get a location.

Lemmy's also very appealing to those that can't stop getting themselves banned from elsewhere as some instances are very friendly to unlimited free speech and gross behaviour. I don't have data to back this claim, but I feel like there's definitely a correlation with those kinds of people and women not feeling safe around them.

In addition to the issues others have pointed out, reddit was like this back in the day too. It's not that weird, even if it is true.

Didn't know that ml still exists LOL