this post was submitted on 05 Nov 2025
40 points (93.5% liked)

Linux

59379 readers
824 users here now

From Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia

Linux is a family of open source Unix-like operating systems based on the Linux kernel, an operating system kernel first released on September 17, 1991 by Linus Torvalds. Linux is typically packaged in a Linux distribution (or distro for short).

Distributions include the Linux kernel and supporting system software and libraries, many of which are provided by the GNU Project. Many Linux distributions use the word "Linux" in their name, but the Free Software Foundation uses the name GNU/Linux to emphasize the importance of GNU software, causing some controversy.

Rules

Related Communities

Community icon by Alpár-Etele Méder, licensed under CC BY 3.0

founded 6 years ago
MODERATORS
 

What distros do you install on your mom's, sister's, buddy's, etc machines?

My go-to has usually been Mint, but I wonder if there is a better set and forget, easily understood distro to install on the computers of those who will rely on you for support.

atomic distros would probably be a good option, but it seems that same disk dual boot is a no no, and that can be a deal breaker.

I'm thinlink QoL, for me, that is.

top 45 comments
sorted by: hot top controversial new old
[–] bhamlin@lemmy.world 3 points 3 hours ago

I sneak into my sysadmin's office and install arch over his slackware install whenever he is out on PTO. I don't think he knows yet who is doing it, but I am sure he secretly enjoys yelling at us while reinstalling.

[–] Tenderizer78@lemmy.ml 1 points 2 hours ago
[–] Amaterasu@lemmy.world 1 points 3 hours ago* (last edited 2 hours ago)

I had some good rate of satisfaction (anecdotal empirical and personal) with Silverblue. Good support for UKI + Secure Boot + TPM2 + SELinux. All of that transparent to end user, and we can roll back stuff quite easy with the Atomic philosophy.

Those were experiments conducted on Lenovo and Dell laptops that have good Linux support with continuous firmware updates via fwupd.

Personally, I use Arch, btw. Not a big fan on the relation of companies with distros.

[–] swab148@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 points 3 hours ago

Since I'm doing all the admin stuff anyways, I went with EndeavourOS. Arch, but on easy mode. I've even got my sister in the habit of updating regularly!

ZorinOS for closest match to Windows, for my gf who did not care for the OS as long as it didn't change much of her day to day habits. I now use it myself, and despite a few minor issues and people pointing out that it's quite out of date software, i'm very happy with it, even for audio/visual/gaming stuff that could be tricky.

[–] DetachablePianist@lemmy.ml 10 points 9 hours ago (2 children)

I don't see much love for Debian Stable + KDE in this thread, but that's what I installed for my wife and she absolutely loves it. Don't underestimate the power of a "boring" but rock solid foundation specifically designed not to break. Users new to Linux migrating away from Windows often really appreciate that.

[–] ArtVandelay@lemmy.world 1 points 29 minutes ago

That sounds like a great combo

[–] curbstickle@anarchist.nexus 1 points 3 hours ago

Well you've given my answer for most scenarios these days.

I did do a bazzite setup for my BIL recently, but thats an edge case. Debian + KDE is what I run mostly too, so its not much of a surprise I'd use it for others either.

[–] warmaster@lemmy.world 7 points 9 hours ago* (last edited 9 hours ago)

I would go with Aurora or Fedora Kinoite. Atomic + KDE is unbreakable and easy for Windows casuals.

The only thing I dislike about Aurora is the illustrations baked into the distro. SDDM & Bazaar have them and can't be changed. But it's a freaking awesome distro.

I use it daily on my work laptop through an external USBC M2 NVME caddy. Today I had to move to a new work laptop and I just plugged it to the new one and that was it, my OS and all my stuff on my new work laptop in just a few seconds. No downtime. No drivers to update. Nothing.

The laptops have their factory Windows untouched. No warranty is void. IT is happy and I get to use Linux at work.

Plus, I can plug the drive to my home desktop PC running Bazzite and open files as if it was a regular thumbdrive.

This setup makes me so happy.

[–] Kongar@lemmy.dbzer0.com 24 points 12 hours ago* (last edited 12 hours ago) (2 children)

It’s often a laptop, something us nerds wouldn’t buy generally speaking, so they tend to have hardware issues. So newer tends to be better. So plain old Fedora workstation with gnome. I pin their favorite programs to the dock, and show them the basics of the interface. I show them the software button and say they can install anything they want from there, and that they should do the updates that pop up from there.

Zero issues. Honestly does a better job than windows - things are more intuitive for the non tech savvy.

Edit: mint is pretty good too if it works. It’s one of those two systems.

[–] elucubra@sopuli.xyz 11 points 12 hours ago (3 children)

Us nerds don't buy laptops?

[–] Peasley@lemmy.world 11 points 11 hours ago* (last edited 11 hours ago) (1 children)

I interpreted it as a "non-nerd" laptop, like a lower end consumer model purchased at full price for example

Laptops like that tend to be more hit and miss on Linux than say a Thinkpad or Framework

[–] Kongar@lemmy.dbzer0.com 4 points 9 hours ago

Yes, like this ;)

[–] GissaMittJobb@lemmy.ml 7 points 11 hours ago

Indeed, wild statement if I ever heard one

[–] Kongar@lemmy.dbzer0.com 3 points 9 hours ago

No no - not like that. Like crappy overpriced laptops. Like “I’m a piece of crap laptop masquerading as a good one and sold to people who don’t know better at a price way way way too high”.

Of course we have laptops :)

[–] merde@sh.itjust.works 3 points 12 hours ago
[–] PerogiBoi@lemmy.ca 18 points 12 hours ago (1 children)

Bazzite. It’s immutable so you don’t need to even set anything up or configure things or go into the command line if you’re just doing regular computer things (web browsing, gaming, etc). Best experience on Linux I’ve ever had in 15 years.

[–] WalrusDragonOnABike@reddthat.com 5 points 12 hours ago (2 children)

For somethings, it makes it harder to install so being immutable sometimes adds an extra hurdle. But for the type of people who wouldn't install the OS themselves, they aren't going to try those methods anyways and if they did, they wouldn't know enough to not break things. So this is what I was thinking.

OTOH, it makes it harder to get find answers since its less popular than the parent OS's and fedora instructions often don't apply, so if they ever do get interested in learning more it could be a hurdle. But they're just gonna ask me to deal with it, and I'm currently using bazzite (+ windows dual-boot for work stuff).

[–] PerogiBoi@lemmy.ca 5 points 11 hours ago

You’re grossly overestimating the amount of people who want to explore around with distros and advanced stuff. The overwhelming majority of every computer user wants to browse the internet, play games, and store their files. For the average person, one can install an immutable distro (for them) and leave them to use their computer.

[–] Know_not_Scotty_does@lemmy.world 4 points 11 hours ago

Yeahh java is a pain in the ass to get setup on bazzite without breaking stuff when you have an os update. I spun a fedora vm up and just installed it there but I need to redo that because the program I need java for is on my main os and I can't move the license without javing java installed on the main os...

[–] N0x0n@lemmy.ml 13 points 12 hours ago* (last edited 9 hours ago)

None... I tried with my Dad and even add some cool tools in additions (youtube dlp frontend). 2 days later he just reinstalled Windows on top because: "My USB audio dongle didn't worked".

Guess what? I didn't either on Windows and was an external peripheral issue, not an OS/driver issue.

But he also said:" Too complicated for me" 🤦‍♂️

Linux mint debian edition.

[–] rozodru@pie.andmc.ca 1 points 6 hours ago

Guix.

My Dad wanted to switch to Linux because he always liked watching me use whatever distro I was on my machines at the time. So I started him out with Fedora and he didn't really like it. he likes to tinker. He started out on DOS and the Commodore 64 back in the 80s. So I showed him my current setup on my main machine with NixOS. he liked it but I think the whole flake and configuration.nix went over his head. He liked how it worked, just really didn't want to deal with all that. So I found a compromise for him. Guix.

He friggin loves it. Yes it's slow, too slow for me, but he adores it. he has a system configuration setup but also different user profiles for himself and my mom. He loves that all he has to do is "guix install whatever" and that's it. It's not like he's gaming or doing any dev work so for what he and my mom needs it's perfect.

all that being said I would NOT recommend you start off new users to Guix. as I previously said, it's slow, but it's god damn simple.

[–] monovergent@lemmy.ml 6 points 11 hours ago* (last edited 10 hours ago)

Mint is a very good option for this purpose. In my case, it's Debian, but with a much more involved process.

The only ones who ask me to help with installing Linux are either very close friends or people in my family with whom I spend more time, and they tend to be curious about the exact setup that I'm using. I just so happen to have a fully-configured system image in a VM that I duplicate onto my machines, so I work with my friend or family to figure out what they need and how they want it to look, then I clone that VM, customize it to taste, and let them try it out. If they like it, I image it to their machine, make sure it's bootable, work out any machine-specific issues, set a new password and encryption key, and make sure that unattended-upgrades is working.

Everyone else just asks me to help install Windows. I have a penchant for LTSC, with an obligatory trick up my sleeve.

[–] Flax_vert@feddit.uk 4 points 10 hours ago

Not entirely related but whenever I told my dad to "install Linux" he shrugged it off. Then I specifically started telling him to look into Linux Mint and sent him a link to the site and he was more intrigued.

[–] Kirk@startrek.website 1 points 7 hours ago

If they are coming from Windows: Kinoite

If they are coming from Macintosh: Silverblue

[–] DFX4509B_2@lemmy.org 3 points 9 hours ago* (last edited 5 hours ago)

Whatever OS they want or need, be it Ubuntu or Mint or whatever, or even Windows for that matter; it ain't my system so it ain't my decision at the end of the day.

I could recommend things for my hypothetical client to look into on their own at a later date, but whatever OS I install on that system is ultimately up to the person I'm hypothetically building it for, I can't just randomly install something without the client's permission, assuming I'm getting paid to build them a PC in this hypothetical.

Granted I'm speaking in terms of that person being a client in a business relationship more than a casual 'I'm getting sick of Windows, what should I run instead' setting-it-up-for-a-friend scenario, but still.

[–] axum@lemmy.blahaj.zone 10 points 12 hours ago (2 children)

They get Windows because I'm not being paid to support their setup

[–] redlemace@lemmy.world 1 points 7 hours ago

Pay or be punished ;)

[–] elucubra@sopuli.xyz 6 points 12 hours ago

I don't either, but there are many in my family and friends I will gladly support.

[–] redlemace@lemmy.world 5 points 11 hours ago* (last edited 9 hours ago)

Elementary on my wife's, the rest of the family manages mostly. Outside family I now go to great lengths to avoid it. I just help them find the right distro and guides.

Otherwise some will see you as 1st 2nd and 3rd line support as well as hardware engineer from installation onward. Kind of the same as in the past when tv's could be repaired. If they know you can do it, your done for. You have not stated working hours nor tariffs. And why pay for parts? You probably have boxes full of all kinds of stuff. (Including a demand to come over and fix stuff on xmas eve at 22:00)

I know, it sounds bitter, I'm not. Or ...well over this point maybe a bit, I enjoyed helping out until too many saw it as a right and not a favour.

[–] Tundra@sh.itjust.works 5 points 12 hours ago (1 children)
[–] original_reader@lemmy.zip 2 points 5 hours ago

Came to say this. Has not failed me yet.

[–] JoshuaBrusque@lemmy.world 4 points 12 hours ago

Hard to go wrong with Linux Mint as a first or last timer.

[–] TabbsTheBat@pawb.social 5 points 12 hours ago

The one time I had to do it they got pop!_os

[–] floofloof@lemmy.ca 4 points 12 hours ago* (last edited 12 hours ago)

Mint or Fedora would be my first choices. I use OpenSUSE Tumbleweed for my own computers but I think those others are better for people new to Linux. In my experience Fedora does a good job of combining up-to-dateness and stability. Mint is less up to date, but close enough to Ubuntu and Debian that loads of the help materials out there will apply to it.

[–] AkatsukiLevi@lemmy.world 4 points 12 hours ago

Mint XFCE 4 with a Windows-like UI. Installed on my sister's home-office, and my mom's old laptop... Haven't had any complaints so far

[–] furrowsofar@beehaw.org 4 points 13 hours ago* (last edited 12 hours ago)

Ubuntu though I am less liking the snap dependence. I would avoid atomic distros for now. They are just the latest fad. Not saying bad though.

[–] Eat_Your_Paisley@lemmy.world 3 points 12 hours ago

One because as soon I touch a family computer I own it and I have zero desire to remotely figure out their problems

[–] kontox@lemmy.ml 1 points 10 hours ago

Planning to install OpenSuse Aeon for my dad. He recently got a new laptop and is willing to give Linux a try on the old one. We’ll see how it goes and which laptop he’ll use more. His requirements are pretty low, he basically needs a browser most of the time, maybe some Office suite and sometimes FreeCad. I told my whole family I refuse to support Windows on their PCs.

[–] smart_and_long@programming.dev 2 points 12 hours ago

NixOS, this is probably THE BEST use case for it.

[–] smeg@feddit.uk 2 points 12 hours ago

They get what I have so when they have questions I'm more likely to know, and if I don't I have a machine with me that I can check. It was Mint when I was still learning, now it's Fedora Atomic. Or for the really tech-averse, ChromeOS Flex.

[–] 721_bipsty@lemmy.ml 2 points 12 hours ago (1 children)

Pre-configured Artix linux with dinit, plasma, refind, and some gui installer, really fast and i think its reliable enough

[–] merde@sh.itjust.works 5 points 12 hours ago

What distros do you install on your mom's, sister's … machines?

Pre-configured Artix linux

🤔

Artix Linux (or simply Artix /ɑːrtɪks/) is a rolling-release Linux distribution based on Arch Linux

🤣

[–] AmazingAwesomator@lemmy.world 1 points 12 hours ago

they get kubuntu or fedora with ~3 months of support from me. it can sometimes take 6 months if the person doesnt really use their computer often, tho.

[–] JustJack23@slrpnk.net 1 points 12 hours ago

Popos is easy to config and easy to install software on so I would go with that.