Seimhe

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[–] Seimhe@lemmy.world 5 points 10 hours ago

I'm torn on this one, because I think we are complicit for not doing the basics of deleting our accounts. We learned about how powerful boycotts are in school as teenagers.

I get that they buy up all the competition, but for most people these are luxuries rather than essentials.

[–] Seimhe@lemmy.world 19 points 13 hours ago

This seems to mean that Meta can’t have the case dismissed. So I’m guessing that other companies who can demonstrate similar downloading patterns, or present similar evidence can also bring a case forward.

I’d imagine that the outcome of the case will be more telling.

[–] Seimhe@lemmy.world 1 points 3 days ago (1 children)

You know that leading with benign parts doesn't successfully hide the contradictions and unhinged parts later, right?

[–] Seimhe@lemmy.world 23 points 1 week ago (3 children)

it’s got fuck all to do with me.

And therein lies your problem. You’ve taken something which seriously affects women at large, and reduced it down to something about yourself.

Empathy can be learned (it’s in us already, just needs unimpeded space). It’s a higher-order form of intelligence that helps us understand the connections between things that are not mechanical, but rather living: each other.

[–] Seimhe@lemmy.world -3 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Even for computer games, I hear stories of men smashing things up when they lose a game or have a certain interaction with another player. There’s an impotent rage lying in wait in many of us, and no man wants to confront their own sense of impotence.

[–] Seimhe@lemmy.world 48 points 1 week ago (9 children)

Sincerely, if you can’t see that the trends of behaviours like this in men outpace women significantly, you have a heavily skewed view of the realities here.

There are other phenomena too that uniquely affect men, such as violence towards a spouse when the man’s team loses a sports game.

There is no equivalent for women at that scale. We as men have to own these realities.