Which version, the obsolete one or the one that's not publicly available yet?
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OK fair, that's the only true one
Assuming that the universe is a simulation being run by a robot that can't parse logical paradoxes, yes
Just enjoy the silly stories, they're all made up (just like every post on the internet)
The kind where you can high-five your bro rather than the kind where the risk of disappointing everyone is much higher?
Yes, have you ever seen a single one that seemed true?
Just let people do their thing, who cares if its embarrassing if it makes them happy?
You can save posts, "commenting so I remember" is just as irrelevant here as it was on reddit!
That's missing the point though: if something isn't completely private then it has the chance of going public. Too many services pretend to be more private than they really are by using terms like "private message" when all they're really offering is a relatively small barrier to seeing your data, especially if anyone can set up their own instance.
That's so alien to me. Well congrats on making it through that meat grinder of a system in one piece!
It's not trivial for most people to leave their home, culture, language, family, friends, etc and move to another country
Sounds like your problem is with the specific industry you're in, not software in general. Move out of finance or startups or wherever it is that's so cutthroat and find a long established company that's not in danger of going out of business on one bad quarter. The industry might not be as interesting but the work will be, and the pay might not be as high but the quality of life will improve!